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Should I stay and be patient, or is over?

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Question - (4 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been off and on for 1 year and 8 months. He has never cheated or lied to me. I have lied to him, but he forgave me. We are totally opposite. We really love each other and can get jealous over little things. I was going to leave him because emotionally he didn't treat me good. And he fought that decision and I told him I will give us a shot. So I started to spend the night again and we will have sex. But we aren't together.We're not seeing other people. He says he wants to wait. He wants to be with me but he doesn't. He's afraid. We argue because we see things differently. He has changed me and I have changed him. He is 22 and i am 18. We are really in love. He is a wonderful guy. A woman's dream. Should I just pray and be patient?

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2010):

shania agony auntYou two have become an old habit and your both scared of completely making a clean break.You said your relationship has been on and off for the last year or so...usually thats a bad sign...If your not compatible then your in deep trouble...the sex might be great but it wont keep you together,as its already showing.Your both so young...i think your fella wants to spread his wings abit and the constant arguing is wearing him down,it must be wearing you out as well.I think your relationship has ran its course...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010):

My situation is just like yours, my boyfriend and I have completely different poitns of view. We love each other, but we fight alot, almost every week. We just break up in one week. I used to want him to get back, but he said he's tired, and needs time. Now I recognize that there could not be love between two different people. Therefore, I would leave him and move on

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