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writes:I'm not sure what to do. Me and my fiance have a son together and things are AMAZING relationship wise the only real issue we have is she can be a little on the lazy side but anyhow. While she was pregnant she we completely ballistic Im not talking your normal hormonal stuff she went off the deep end her friends messed with her made her believe stuff and it was hell she broke it off and got with some other guy. I was beat up and after awhile finally got into the grove of things and got another girlfriend. We had sex then soon after she left me for her ex. Meanwhile my ex is still pregnant and with this other guy. She had sex with him too after he broke up with her none the less. Anyhow we went through so much and we are so much better now and things are great with us but there are 2 problems and I dont know what to do. The one is she still holds a grudge against me for the girl I slept with when we were apart even though I dont hold her guy against her. And 2 she has been with more guys then I have girls and personally admits shes done everything! The problem is she wont do hardly anything with me. She will only do 3 different positions and wont do any oral but yet gets mad if I don't want to give her any during sex (which doesn't bug me too much I love to do it and I'm soso on getting it done to me anyhow) The thing that bugs me is she wont try any other possitions with me and gives the excuse "I've tried that before and its not good" every time. Thing is just because it wasn't good with someone else doesn't mean its always bad. I just want her to try things with me if she still doesn't like it that's fine the sex we do have is already amazing but who says it cant be better if we try other things you know?And Im not asking her to do crazy or painful stuff not even weird or kinky stuff like she has had anal before and I never once asked for that (mostly cuz I never want to have it) or anything. Its stuff like lets try reverse cowgirl instead of missionary tonight or lets have sex in the shower or kitchen or car somewhere other then the bedroom or heck even in the bedroom just standing up for once, simple stuff. But instead all i get is missionary every night cowgirl when she feels like it and doggy style which I had to fight to get for over a year but now she loves it. (See sometimes its better with other people but she wont give on anything else!!!!!!!!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): you have a son together so she will always be in your life, try councelling for you both, and just forget about the sex bit of the relationship for a while.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 January 2010):
Seriously, forget the sex and really get counselling for you as a couple, because this won't go away. That's my best advice to you.
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