I need to know where I stand, please help.

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone, here's my problem. I really like this guy and have done for almost a year now. We've been out a few times and he knows I like him but I'm not sure that he knows how much. Also I'm not sure he likes me the same way. He's told me he likes me and when we first started "seeing each other" he had liked me for a few months prior. We don't see each other much if I'm honest but we text and talk but recently i get the feeling he's losing interst. I've gone over in my head what I'd say to him if I were to ask him whether he likes me knowing full well I'm never going to do it. I really need to know where I stand with him because it's driving me crazy. What makes it worse is that him and my friend don't exactly get on and I've constantly got her voice in the back of my head saying "don't trust him, he's a bad guy" when trusting him is exactly what i want to do. I really need help, i'm at the point where I've considered turning up on his doorstep to ask him straight. He's not done anything to make me believe he doesn't like me but at the same time he's done nothing to prove that he does. I feel like I'm floating in a state of limbo at the moment and it's doing my head in. How do I find out where i stand without freaking him out with the whole "where is this going" question?

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