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She has been an incredible partner both in bed and in satisfying my fetish, so should I marry her?

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Question - (4 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2010)
A male India age 36-40, *eetcupid12 writes:

I'm 26 years old and I have a major foot fetish. I know this friend from school and I told her around 2 years back about how awesome her feet were. this happened over a casual conversation and after a few weeks few weeks later (after a lot of foot conversations) she let me play with her feet. Over a period of time, our relationship got more intense and she got a tattoo done on her feet. We started having sex a year ago and she is completely okay with being my foot mistress. I must stress that we weren't seeing each other during this period. Neither did any of us expect any commitment from each other. We have been dating other people during this period.

Recently though, her mom wants her to get married to this guy she knows. She told me that she obviously wouldn't want to cheat on her husband if she does get married and our little sessions would soon have to end. However, she could push the case with her parents if I expressed an intention in marrying her.

From my perspective, she has been an incredible partner both in bed and in satisfying my fetish. I don't think any other girl would match up to her in this regard. Does this mean I should start thinking about marrying her just so all my (and obviously her) sexual fantasies are fulfilled. I dont want to end up cheating on anyone I date/marry in the future if she isn't interested playing the role of a foot mistress

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (4 January 2010):

This would depend on if you were ready for marriage and if you had lots in common other than the foot fetish? The best way to judge is to ask yourself: if she didn't allow me this foot fetish indulgence, would she still be someone I could live with? Introduce to my family? Have children with? Above all, am I in love with her? If your answers are affirmative then why not marry her and live your dream life with someone you already want.

On another point, a lot of posts come from India with lots of freaky sexual stuff...I always just assumed it was a strict traditional country where any deviations would be suppressed! I'm beginning to think I should move there...!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010):

Does she seem someone you can be with when you are not having sex?

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