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51-59,
*kiing2009
writes:Im so confused and lost i dont know what to do. My bf who doesnt act like one is well confusing me perhaps there is a better word. Anyways, dating 3 mos i do all the driving he doesnt come to see me not sure i ask but he doesnt. The problem is when i say something like umm im neglected, hug me, give me attention, sit be side me he says im trying to start a fight with him. Okay im lost im just stating what i want, he turns it around and makes me look horrible and all i want to do is fight and im unhappy and then i end up crying. There is not a lot of affection, no sex since Thanksgiving im lost. I have no problem with gay people however i suspect that he might be being that he doesnt touch me or anything nothing just very cold to me and other times he is more caring still not very affectionate. I need advice i am losing my mind. Reply to this Question
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reader, topher747  +, writes (4 January 2010):
 bf have a nasty habbit of being cold and distent when they want you to break up with them. i know this because me and my mates have all done it.
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reader, kenia34 +, writes (4 January 2010):
well you don't want to want a person who doesn't want you!!!!!!!why even take yourself thru the agony...If you make it work you will still be alone!!!!Find a new man
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 January 2010):
Even if he isn't gay, he's still being very uncaring. time to be tough. Either he tells you what has happened and changed, or you leave. And mean in. You deserve happiness, so don't waste time with a guy who doesn't care about you.
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