She lost her virginity to another guy because I was a jerk to her in the beginning, how do I get over this?

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a problem. There was this girl that I talked to and I was her firs kiss. First guy that she ever had feelings for. I liked her to but didnt really think much of it. I stopped tralking to her after about 5 weeks and just left her hanging. The mostI eve did with her was take have her topless. We both being virgins. 18 years of age very mature young adults. The next 2 and half months we occasionaly texted and flirted but nothing more. During this time frame she liked me the whole time and at any moment I could of had her. Then during the last 6 or 7 days of that 2 1/2 month span she got with a another man just because she felt like she needed a bf. She did not know I was a virgin, but instead thought that i was a manwhore. One night she decides to engage in sex with the man. Only for a moment 2 minutes if that. The guy does not even ejaculate. She tells him to stop and puts he clothes on right afterwards. The next days she vents to me saying that she hs just made the biggest mistake ever. I felt a connection while she was telling me. The next day she breaks up with man and 10 days later we are officially together. I lost my virginity to her a few weeks later. I am just mad at my self because I could have avoided all of tis if I was not a jerk to her in the beginning. She even bled when we did it some of her hymen was still intact. We are deeply in love and are going to marry each other oneday. I mean she didnt technically loose her virginity to me, but she basically did. I lover her and just want to get these stupid thoughtsout of my head. I am the first guy that he has given oral to and had anal with. 2 minutes really isnt even sex I need to get over it can somebody help me!!!

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