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writes:So I was seeing this girl for about a year. We did everything together and had everything but the official title of boyfriend and girlfriend. About six months ago I had some personal issues that came up that were going to take me away for a while so I told her that I needed a little time to deal with these. About a month later everything was taken care of and I called her up to get back together with her. She said she couldn't give me a relationship now because she was too hurt that I abandoned her. We continued to hang out and sleep with each other. Both of us said "I love you" many times since we got back together. Last week she texts me and says that she can't do this because she isn't in a place where she can have a relationship. Basically she said she needed space so I gave it to her. I miss her terribly and I want her back but I want to give her space too. I am a tall, handsome, successful person with SO much going for me but I still feel like I'm not good enough from her. So my question is should I move on or wait a while for her?
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reader, jcams +, writes (13 December 2010):
jcams is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJonas, I only left briefly because I did not want to hurt her in the process of what I was going through. She is a girl that needs attention and I was not going to be able to give her as much as she needs. I made it clear that as soon as things calmed down I wanted to be with her. So far I have just moved on and tried to not think of her. I have not called, text, or e-mailed her since a few days before my original post. She has not contacted me either, so I am assuming that she was serious and wants me to leave her alone. Thank you for your replies.
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reader, doublejack +, writes (9 December 2010):
My advice is to move on. Life isn't a rehearsal, it is a one shot deal. Time spent waiting, pining for someone is time wasted, time that you'll never get back. You can always keep the lines of communication open while dating other women, and possibly get back together if the opportunity ever arises. However, that's not something that you can count on happening.
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