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We have been together a year and I want a committment from him, am I moving too fast or should I move on?

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Question - (9 December 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 41-50, *nowFlake28 writes:

Here's my story:

My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year. I have been asking him for a commitment, marriage, because i want a baby. Is it too fast to ask? Im 28 and he's 34, we met right after he had ended a relationship of 10yrs with whom he has a 6yr old.

I don't know what to do. I love him and he always tells me he loves me too, but he does not want to move in with me, and when i ask him where our relationship is going he doesn't really give me an answer or knows what to say. The only thing he tells me is that he does not want to make the same mistakes he made with his EX. I'm 28 and he's 34, i want to try to have a baby now...

I have an infertility problems that he does not know about; i dont' want to tell him if this is not going to workout (it is too emotional for me). Per my DR, i need to start trying now because after the age of 35 i will most likely not be able to mother a child.

Am i being too fast? Shoudl i just wait and see what happens, or shoudl i just move on with my life? What shoudl i do? Pelase help me with some advice.

Thank you ~

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