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writes:hey , i just wonder why wouldnt my long distance relationship girlfriend give me her facebook ?shes telling me that she would get jealous if she sees other girls postin on my fb and i would get jealous too seein other guys talking to her, but what does she really hide ?it deosnt make sence to me , she really doesnt wanna have me on fb at all , i dont even know whats her name on fb !!what do you guys think about this ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): I think it's pretty obvious she is hiding something, most probably a boyfriend. I think it's time you move on and find somebody who is closer to where you are and who you can have a real relationship with.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 I think tennisstar has the answer. I think she's not been honest with you. Two years is a very long time to not see each other. The whole point of facebook is for social networking, to see what your friends are posting and sharing pictures and experiences with people who are far away. A friend of mine just got into an LDR and has been posting about it on his FB page. We can get to know his new love. It's fun!
For her to cut you out of it tells me she has something to hide. I would be thinking seriously about ending the relationship and looking for someone who is actually nearby. Sorry.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 December 2010):
 The other thought I had, was sounds like she's got a boyfriend. As in a boyfriend that is in her country and close by. Rethink this LDR, my dear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe met a few days before i left ny country , and after that we spoke online and got really close to eashother, i know who she is , shes jst protective over her facebook and thats what drives me crazy , i dont know why she doesnt want to have me in
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 December 2010):
Are you asking why won't she add your friend request on Facebook, or are you asking for her password to her Facebook?
I agree with Tisha, you don't even know her name on Facebook? That sounds extremely sketchy. Now, I'm questioning if she's really who she says she is. You've never met in person, but have you seen her on webcam or maybe Skyped? If you haven't then I would want to match whatever name she gave you with a face, ask her to webcam with you. So you can see her beautiful face.
If she refuses then you have your answer.
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (9 December 2010):
If you haven't met after two years and aren't even on each others facebooks then the only type of relationship you're in with her is a friendship.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (9 December 2010):
So have you ever met in person? I think you may have a problem here; this isn't really a viable relationship from what I'm hearing. I would say that it's actually more of a fantasy that has no real future. I'm sorry to be so negative but this cyberomance stuff seems to sweep people up and somehow keeps them from seeing the reality of the situation, which is that a real relationship has two people who can actually be together in real life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe been together for a lil two years but unfortunatly we couldnt meet up during this whole time since im kinda far away from home
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (9 December 2010):
It is a very good question, actually. Why won't she let you be friends with her on FB? It would be a nice way to keep up with each other. It seems rather suspicious.
How long have you been dating? How did you meet? How often do you see her in person?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): That's really shifty and it seems like she is hiding something.
If its early in the relationship why not just make an ultimatum. She doesn't sound worth keeping.
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