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writes:is he cheating on me? well the stury goes, me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and im not so certain he really means it when he says he loves me. a little while back i logged on to his old myspace account which he gave me the password to check any mail sent from his family in durango colorado. i checked everything for him and even changed his account settings for him, well, as any curious girlfriend would do, i checked his mail from the bottom of the list and he was flirting with another girl about three to four months into our relationship. outraged, i continued to check more recent messages and found a completely new conversation with a different girl which stated he was gonna dump his girl and was done with me because i didnt have the time for him and we never saw each other, which was a lie, we spent just about everyday together until the holidays, but i had to spend time with my family too. i mean he even basically asked that other girl out, asking if she had a man and if she would be with him, he even attempted to go see her in denver when he told me he was going to durango to see his family. good thing he couldnt find the address, and she didnt even answer the phone when he called to ask her directions. when i asked him he told me it was way be we started dating and he never told her that and that he would never say that and that his profile was hacked and i brought up the fact that i know how he types because he has a spacific way he texts and he types the same way and he even types as if he was talking and he still refused it but the messages have a time and date of when they were sent and recieved. i also found sex finder websites and slutty friend finders in his email with responses from the girls the website matched him with. im stuck at my house cleaning and taking after my family and hes free to roam wherever he wants and whenever, im very concerned that hes cheated or possibly still cheating on me and to top it off i havent had a period in over 5 months so the possibility of me being pregnant is constantly over my head. a lot of stress is built inside me from this. what should i look for and should i be this concerned is there certain behaviors i shud look for in him or is there something im missing??? please help!!??
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reader, schacm  +, writes (9 December 2010):
STOP!!! first off , dont install a keylogger , dont read his emails , and dont stiffle through his stuff . If he cheated on you , and he wont tell you , then there is a problem , but you shouldn't be trying to find out , ask him in person , talk to him about it, but if he wont be honest or you cant feel at peace with his answer , then he most likely isn't the guy for you . Relationships are based on trust and truth , and if you cant get either of those things from him , then he isn't the guy for u
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