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writes:Just a question for you all to answer. So i have been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months now. Lately i have been catching her talking to her ex from 7 months ago allll the time. and going out for drinks and lunches quite often. One night they both and some others went out for drinks and she said he slept on the couch at her place cause he was to drunk to drive home. so she gave him a place to stay.Am i wrong to be upset? i told her that i think its bullshit that shes doing all the stuff. She tells me that im the only one in her life but i dont know if i should believe her... Who is at fault her? is this a situtation i should end? AKA break up with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): Move on. She is still into her ex and he's into her. You have no chance. Sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): And yeah i told her that im unhappy and she answered " Well if you cant deal with the fact that hes my friend, then this wont work for me."
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): well we dated for over 2 years a couple years ago. then we broke up, right away she started dating this guy. they recently broke up now we are back together. She constantly hides that she talks to him and one text message i caught her sending was a "Goodnight XOXOXO"
AS far as the night he stayed over i am just going from what she is saying and thats that he just slept on the couch then she drove him to his car in the morning.
am i crazy for thinking im getting played?
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (9 December 2010):
Personally I wouldn't stand for it if I was in your shoes. It sounds like she's dating you and your ex.
if you're the only person in her life, then why is she spending so much time with her ex?
have you told her you're not happy with this situation?
you two have only been together three months, I don't see it lasting much longer to be honest.
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reader, Mjfbla  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Well I doubt she is going to stop talking to him so the real and only question here is 1. DO you trust her? 2. Can you be with her if she keeps seeing her x? If you answer no to either then how can you be with her. It is weird that she is still so inolved with her x, and i wouldnt trust my bf f his x stayed on the couch. Is that the only thing that happend?
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