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Archived questions from: 10 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She can't love me..but how can I make her love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - How can you make a woman you do love, love you?? Even though she already told you that she cannot love you?...

He dumped me because apparently, I didn't communicate enough! Is this a good enough reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I'm not quiet sure of what my question is but was hoping some people can shed some light on this scenario so i can understand things better to move on. recently a boyfriend of 3 1/2 months broke it off with me, out of the blue. it has been the best...

I'm jealous! He spent more on his ex than me! How do I shake these feelings off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend went into debt buying things for his ex. But he doesn't spend very much money on me- he did learn and grow wiser from having made so many mistakes from that relationship but I am still mildly jealous that she got him to spend...

He's dumped me twice before and now again! How do I get things back on track?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 years has just broke up with me due to alot of problems. He's now saying he doesn't have enough feelings to be in the relationship with me. He's done this twice before so how do i get things back on track?...

Should I ask my counsellor to be my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - hi im seeing a alcohol counselor for my problem. she also teaches dance class on a tuesday that i have been going to only, for women. i would like to remain friends with my counsellor i am not in love with her should i ask her about friendship i ...

Mother in abusive relationship, won't leave, I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - hey im 13. my mom has been in a relationship with this guy. over the years he has started getting more and more controling. they fight every single dayy... okay well last year we have bought a condo.. my mom cant afford it on her own and he helps ...

What's this guy up to? It's like he wants me to NOT like him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - me and sam were together for six months but then he started to argue with me for me to not to like him no more. i told him how he was carrying on but said he dont know why this happens to him so he decides that he dont want to hurt me. so we become ...

It seems like its his friends or me..and I don't want to be stuck in this situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - I've been seeing a guy for about 8 months now. We ussually get along great. However, we have a small problem: his close childhood friends. His friends mean the world to him and him them, I totally appreciate and respect that. They have known each ...

LDR and he has no phone or internet access

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hi there, bear with me, this is a long one. My boyfriend and I ave been in together for just over 3 months. We have been Long distance for 7 weeks now - i was travelling and now he's travelling (both independant plans we'd organised months...

My children are horrible, my husband is impotent.. I'm lost.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I have very serious problems with my 5 children. They are all totally messed upon different ways. None of them has a relationship, and all of the dysfunctional on different ways. They had been in therapy, and several other ways to help them. We t...

Loving someone that loves someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hi I am a twenty years old girl, im dating this 27 years old guy. I like dating older guys because they are mature and also i want to settle down and have a serious relationship. He told me about his ex, they were dating for 9 years so I asked ...

My son is dating a much older married man and I don't know how to deal with it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I found out from a good family friend that my son (he's 16) is in a relationship with a well-known local judge in our area. The friend said he'd seen my son drinking coke with this man, and they were kissing passionately in a Pizza Hut togeth...

I'm having an emotional affair with my cousin and don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I'm married and not in love with my husband. I've been with my husband for 12 years.I have been in love with another guy every sense my teenage years. The catch is he is a 5th cousin. I've tried to keep it a serect even from him but I told him and ...

Do you think I'm being unfair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship and living with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years.Some problems have risen regarding my childrens father who is a prisoner and my boyfriend who is a correctional officer that could possibly cost my boyfriend his job ...

I have no idea what goes on in my head. Any insight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - What is wrong with me???? I don't understand it. Ever since me and my ex broke up, which was 3 years ago, I have been wanting someone I can have something special with. To have true and real love and someone who will love me who I can love back....

My boyfriend and best friend have been fooling around whilst I was on holiday, how do I talk to them about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a little over 7 months now he's 15 im 14 and sexually active. im worrying as recently i went to Turkey on holiday and when i came back i found out my boyfriend and supposed best friend have been playing a questi...

How do I tell him that I need some more time without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - About a week ago I dumped my boyfriend of two years. It was the hardest thing I've ever done and I never want to go through that again. The reason that it was so hard is because I do love him, and I still love him. He is my best friend hands down. I ...

I cant seem to move on from the last relationship - should I give this new girl more time or break it off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - I am recently out of a long term relationship. I started to see this girl for about three months now. I thought I was ready for a relationship when I met her but I feel like a black hole. I have given it three months and she is a great girl but I ...

How can I stop wanting him back so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship for close to a year. It was long distance, but we were making plans to move in with each other and my boyfriend had proposed. I accepted his proposal and we were happy. Being 18 and a senior in high school I could not go down ...

This girl is making me feel like I'm going crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - Am i going crazy? am i really like this or does she just turn things around? this past weekend the girl ive been talking to sure made me feel like it... She had been really upset about her ex the last week for whatever reason and kind of ignored me ...

He hasn't seen his "girlfriend" since May last year, but he still wont break up with her!

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10 August 2009 (F) - I have this major problem with a guy at my work. I have never met someone who is so easy to talk to and we have really in depth conversations, he's like my best friend. Of course, naturally I developed a crush on him, although now I would describe ...

I'm worried the girl I am dating will get back together with her ex when he comes back from Iraq!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - alright here it goes... iv been seeing this girl for about a month now. we hav hit it off very well her friends love me and mine love her... we are not officailly an object yet but pretty close. weve had sex a few times alredy and hav hung out every ...

Not once has he said he loves me but sends messages to his other girl telling her he loves her and misses her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - i am stuck in a relationship thats not really a relationship. we started to talk back in 07 and still talking. only thing is that he is a lier and a cheat. see when we first start talking we were not a we just fb's but i got attached and some how he ...

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

This question has 68 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

I'm pregnant and worry that man can't be trusted, am I being taken for granted?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hello, I;ve just stumbled across this site and hope somebody could help me find some clarity. I've been with my partner for just over a year and a half. He seemed like he doted on me in the start and was so absorbed by me that he didnt see...

My girlfriend is too shy to express her real feelings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - hey everyone, im having problems with my gf. shes great and all but shes just too different and she kinda scared me. she acts really weird acting as if she tries to avoid her true feelings, when im trying to be serious she turns it into a joke, her ...

I'm building up resentment for my boyfriend because of the things he says to me...I don't know what to do !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. Living together for 4. We have had some tough times but seem to have come through them. The problems we have are nothing new, it's mostly communication but he constantly reminds me when I've don...

My boyfriend doesn't tell me he loves me or does anything with me. Do you think he wants to be elsewhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - hi i am 21 and my boyfriend is 24 and we have 2 kids,he does not tell me that he loves me anymore and he wants to everything alone. we use to do everything together but not anymore.... well i just want to now if he wants to be with me or does he ...

I just can't accept that men always look at beautiful women!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My first boyfriend ever left me, we were together for 3 years and we had some issues because he was jealous of my past. This had some impact on my self esteem, and I started feeling more and more ugly all the time (I've always felt ugly because I've ...

Will one of us wander while we are seperated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and eight months now, starting when he was a sophomore and I was junior in high school. I am about to start my sophomore (and final) year at a local community college and he's starting his freshman ...

I'm willing to do almost anything but he'd rather watch it on the computer!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hey - I have been having a little problem for a while now regarding my boyfriend of 3 years. He is a great guy and i love him. But our sex life can be a bit lacking at times and i find myself knowing some things i shouldnt- because i snoop. (...

What is going through his head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I met a guy at the beginning of the year at a college group who has stared ever since we saw each other. I am talking more than a few seconds. It's like 5 minutes whether I return it or not. One time he stopped in the middle of the kitchen when we ...

What will people think seeing me working in a restaurant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Well I think this may seem juvenile, but I've been getting bad anxiety about this and it's making me lose motivation. I was living in a large city, but I ended up getting laid off my job and moved back home, to my much smaller city. The city isn't ...

Just out of a bad relationship and this other guy wants to date me. How do I tell him...I'm not ready!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I just got out of a tumultuous relationship with my child's father. I don't want to be in another relationship right away. I just want to hang out, mostly by myself, go back to school, take care of my girls and just get a grip on life. But my ...

He says he can't orgasm during sex as he masturbates too much! It isn't me is it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My bf says he has never been able to ever cum when having sex with any girl that he has had sex with. He can however when he masturbates himself. He says he cant come during sex because he has masturbated so much. For him to cum he needs it to be ...

I don't have feelings for my bf but I have kissed this other guy! What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years.We've always had a very strong friendship but we no longer seem like a couple and haven't slept together in 5 months. A few months ago while on a work night out his friend(who is also a friend of mine ...

After dating, this younger fellow,he tells me he wants to be with a woman closer to his age! Advise appreciated

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - 3 months ago I met a lovely man and we had an almost instant connection. We shared the same intellectual level, and revelled in each others company. Our friendship deepened and we became intimate. The big problem was that he is 50 and I am a young ...

Why is my ex bf making contact after five months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - So I dated this guy I was totally crazy about for three or four months. We broke up because he "wouldn't commit" because he claimed he was too busy and felt like he shouldn't get involved in something serious because he will need to move to complete ...

His ex gf is trying to break us up and I'm upset! Am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year. His best friend is a girl. They dated before, but it didn't work out. She is still in love with him, and she even admits to it. She is always trying to start things and break us up. She is always ...

My husband won't french kiss me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My husband has never french kiss me. He just have sex with me. I feel very lonely and rejected. He says he will never french kiss any women. He works hard and help me around the house a lot. He keeps our house up good. we have one grown daughter...

Why does a guy who thinks you're great keep backing off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Why does a guy who thinks you're great keep backing off? I've been seeing this guy for 3 or 4 months now and we really don't know each other that well still. We can go for over a week without speaking (I don't like to contact him twice in a row ...

I can't cope having a purely physical relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I know I'm young, so I'm not going to naively throw the word 'love' around, but if there ever was anyone, it would be him, I've had strong feelings for him for nearing 4 years now, we've always gotten on really well and known how we've felt about ...

How do I tell him he's become unattractive to me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Lately I haven't been sexually attracted to my fiance, and have been looking more at other men and women. His weight gain has increased so much, and I think that this could be why i'm so uninterested. I don't know how I would go about telling him ...