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Archived questions from: 25 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I think she loves her boyfriend and me too and I can't make sense of this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - This is really complicated and hard to do as missing important details might get me the wrong advice but here goes. . . . Well I started seeing a girl that I was working with we were both involved with other people at first we were just great ...

He can't provide a stable environment for us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and have a son together. i love him with all of my heart but he is very lazy and demanding. i want to be with him but he cant provide a stable enviornment for me and my son. i been talking to an old ...

Getting over my soulmate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Hi, My situation is rather complex, or perhaps it is not,but it feels it as been over a number of years. I am giving you the shortest version possible. I met a wonderful man 10 years ago, when I was 19 and I have to say was love at first si...

Is my girlfriend a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - My question is about if I am being played by a woman or not. I am 36 and have been dating a 42 year old for over 13 months. When we met, she said she was divorced, a mother of 3, and just got out of a relationship with a younger man of an unknown ...

3 way relationship not working so well. Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - I'm having trouble deciding on what to do here. If anyone could help me with some suggestions it would be much appreciated. I recently started a 3 way relationship and I am the 3rd person to join into an already 2 way, but my intentions were not to ...

Cheated just before we got married, and now he wants a threesome to even the score!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I cheated on my husband 2 years ago a few months before we got married. I had sex with another man one time (the biggest mistake of my life). Now he wants to make me feel the same way that I made him feel back then by having a threesome this weekend ...

Deeply in love with a married man and at an impass

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Almost a year ago I met this man. I was married, (unhappily) He was in the same boat. We both have kids as well. We got together. Not only did we become physical but we were actually bestfriends and talk everyday, had drinks and did stuff together. ...

Commitment phobia boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - What am I supposed to do when my boyfriend (been together for 3 years, lived together 2 years) tells me that: - in order to be fun a relationsip must be commitment-free - he's not sure he's gonna love me forever because he might not like me in t...

She told me I must get her pregnant in the next few weeks and we've never had sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - I'm 18, left college, going to university in September, my girlfriend's 17. She's told me I must get her pregnant in the next few weeks. I told her this is just not going to happen, and I said I will leave the relationship if she attempts this. ...

What should I do if my girlfriend is having phone sex with another guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - She usually sends erotic messages to him right when he gets out of work. They are co-workers, so she knows his schedule. I found out she was sending him dirty stories about themselves and ones she would make up. How I found out was that she would be ...

My partner is away with work & always seems too tired to speak to me. Are these signs worrying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of five years is currently in another country to work on a company project. He will be away for two months. I am putting every effort possible to keep the communication between us however I somehow feel that he is not as enthusiastic as ...

Too young to be engaged & in love with someone else, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old and engaged. I have also been in love with a different man for almost 6 years. Recently, the man that i've been in love with for 6 years confessed how he wants to be with me and has had mutual feelings for the same amount of time. ...

I'm pregnant & he isn't taking it seriously & is even messing about in txt with my mate! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - hey i need some advice. iv been with my fiance for a year, im pregnant with his baby and we moved into our own house 3weeks ago my bf has lied to me in the past and iv always been worried hes cheatin on me as he hides his phn and deletes msgs, on...

He threatened to hurt me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - sorry-it's a bit of a long story.It started 3 years sgo-me and my boyfriend had a physical fight and I had bruises,a few days after that I started seeing him in places he should'nt have been-like near my mum's when I never took him there I kept ...

Am I right to be angry over lack of contact in a long distance relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I just want to get something clarified in my head and would like some opinions. To cut a v.v. long story short, about 16 months ago i was in a very happy and loving relationship with someone for 2.5 years. Then 16 months ago, I de...

Will my ex come back...I'm pregnant and alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have been going out with a man now for a little over a year. We have had several breakups in the last 6 months, so very on and off but the most we were apart was 30 days. Anyway I really want things to work out with this guy. In the last breakup, ...

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me but she always manages to make me feel like I'm in the wrong!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - So, I've been in a relationship with the same girl for over five years - off and on - more on than off, though. We've had ups and downs and have mostly worked through them. Problem as of late is that I think she's cheating on me, maybe she isn't ...

I want to block out my past and move on with my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - hi im a 20 year old female and im always stressed out and always have been since i can remember, even at my boyfriend who doesnt even do anything really wrong. Im so upset and angry all the time i think sometimes its about my past, i always have ...

I want my married boyfriend for myself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - i lost my virginity to my married boyfriend...as started out, i never had a boyfriend and was never "explored" by any male...with that, he told me that i should regard him as my husband as he's the first to explore me..his wife is not really a good ...

My parents are so cruel! I really wish I wasn't their child

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - This is my pathetic, sorry life story. pls dont ignore i need friends now more than ever. My mother has not been the one i always hope to have. All my life, she never corrects me calmly instead she yells, beat or she ignores me for long. i have...

Baby on the way..how do I stop freaking out about every little thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - me and my most recent ex are having a baby together, but we are not together anymore. we have discussed getting back together and want to make it work for the baby (plus we still love eachother). the thing is that i freak out on him about stupid ...

I want to break up with him for the final time and find real love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have been with one guy for 10 years. but 5 years ago we breaked and we start again new love before three months but I couldn't continue with him. he is always come with negative thinking. he sent me bad text message every day. We don't have age ...

I don't know how to make my girlfriend believe that I love her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - I love my girlfriend and I told her this, but she and I got into an arguement of how we don't see each other enough, but we already discussed this and I told her it was because my parents are strict and she got mad and was hanging up on me, so I got ...

My boyfriend thinks it was ok for his friends to spike my drink!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - My bf's friends spiked my drink with alcohol. This really upset me because I dont drink. He thinks its ok that they spiked my drink. He doesnt understand why its upsetting and completely wrong. Why doesnt he understand? I was sick for the nex...

Difficulties with my step children, how should I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have been remarried 5 years. I came to the marriage with 4 children and my husband has 2. His children are not involved in our family and very rarely come to see us. His daughter at one point( when kicked out of her bilogical mother's home) lived ...

My boyfriend answered his phone during sex! Why is he acting so weird?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - My guy never answers his phone for me when he is with his friends, but, When we are together he is texting and he has even answered the phone in the middle of sex! He has been acting really weird lately. He also just told me a few hours ago that "He ...

The only issue in our relationship is that he never says "I Love You"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Hi there, I know I may not hear what I want to hear, but I'd like to get some perspective on my situation. I'm sorry if it's a bit long, but bear with me. I'm just about 23 and my boyfriend is 24. We will have been together 18 months as of Se...

I don't want to make him choose between me and the mother of his baby but I don't want to be the other woman either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I Have been friends with a guy "R" for almost 9 years. We Met in school. We had plan on dating the summer after we met but are life's got complicated so we decided not to add more drama. We stayed friends but never brought it up again. We never ...

My girlfriend doesn't know if she's in love with me anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - So me and my gf have been together for almost 2 years now. We were having problems a while back because I wasn't doing anything with my life and I wasn't making any effort in attempting to fix it. We broke up for a good 2 months or so and just ...

Our relationship has turned sour because I put on weight!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Iv been seeing this guy for quite a while now, everything was going so perfect! He was just the sweetest. I never thought it would last as he really wasnt my type but he really went out of his way to win me over and i ended up falling in love with ...

We used to have a great relationship but now we have a son he doesn't want to see him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we have a baby together. We had a great relationship,but now that we have our son he dont call he doesnt see him. So i was wondering does he still want to be in the relationship and be there for his son ...

One part of me wants to leave and the other part has fallen hard for him, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have been friends with a man for about a year before i had any sensual relationship that lasted 2 months when he then decided to go back to his x, the mother of his 2 children.she wanted him back When she found out that he was moving on. Well ...

I'm in love with a married man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - for the first time i am opening up my problem .. here it is i met a guy in my office and somehow i liked him at the beginning and slowly we became good friends and i came to know that he is married. then many a times i decided that i shud nt talk ...

She doesn't believe a word I say

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - ok... I have a question im so in love with this one girl and me and her have dated before and our relationship went downhill simply cuz she lost trust in me and now she claims she doesnt like me anymore but there have been signs to show that she ...

He's paying for everything for his ex -- is he playing me for a fool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. at first he was paying everthing for his and his ex wife house because he has a 16 year old daughter. She is now almost 20 years old and living with her boyfriend. My boyfriend is still paying ...

I'm willing to forgive his faults: can this marriage be saved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have myself in a bit of a predicament. I have three children and have been married for 14 years. Like all marriages ours have had its ups and downs. We were married young. I was 18 and he was 19. Neither of us had been in a serious ...

Why would they be stalking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - has anyone ever heard of someone stalking someone purely for the fun of it-proper stalking, not just checking someones myspace or whatever. I am being stalked by my so called boyfriend and his friends-the boyfriend is NOT obsessed with me-we only ...

My heart cannot survive this hurt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend off and on for 16yrs... in this time i found out i cannot carry a child. he left me 8 yrs ago...got a girl pregnant and i took him back i felt i could not give this to him so i accepted his child as my own. well low a...

My girlfriend rarely shows me affection. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - So i've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and she finds it hard to show me affection. We have pet names for each other (Muffin/Puffin) And I call her Muffin all the time and she rarely calls me Puffin. Point being is that she finds it ...