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Archived questions from: 26 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Four weeks after I found out she cheated, she's texting him again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend had been texting some guy constantly for over 2 years at first I thought nothing of it but it was getting out of hand and if I were to touch her phone would go mad. I did only to find out she has been sleeping with him for 2 years on ...

I found out she cheated on me a year ago!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - My partner and I have been together for four and a half years. Since the middle of our sophomore year of college. We started at the same graduate school last year and I'm planning on finishing with my Master's in Education while she wants to go on ...

Holiday romance ... what is his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - hi my name is lisa and i met this guy away on holidays and i spent the week with him. it was like a holiday romance, but i didnt do with him. we all got back to dublin and i forgot bout the holiday. he never asked for my number but he found me on ...

Why would he lie and say he had sex with her when he did not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - My childhood friend and I have had feelings for each other on and off for the past 15 years of our friendship. But of course always at separate times. I was going to confront him about my feelings this time. Though it isn't as easy as I thought it ...

Why is taking longer for my girlfriend to climax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - This is a post mark to is my girlfriend a player. When we first started dating when we have sex she would climax within 15 minutes, orally sometimes within 5. After December it became the time double and she became to incorporate a vibrator into ...

The unknown factor in our "relationship" is driving me crazy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - Hi there, Here's the situation. In the past I met woman often times while travelling and things moved quickly. When one is travelling and connects with someone, everything in a sense has to move forward at warp factor 5. Using that as a poin...

Cousin is confiding in me..how do I tell him I'm attracted to him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I am in love with my cousin we kissed when i was 10 and he was 12 and i didnt see him for like 7 years and now that we saw each other everything is soo awkard between us he will give me eye contacts and stuff but we didnt do anything he would te...

I'm in love with an old friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I'm in love wit an old classmate of mine so i decided to tell her.she said she doesn't feel like having a relationship wit anyone.i asked why but she wouldn't say why.i tried to convince her that i really love her but she said she would only prefer ...

His wife refused him a divorce now we cant be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - i have known someone for twelve years only as a customer to him. we have spoken to each other on lots of occasions outside his work place up to recently he asked me to go out with him as he was divorcing his wife he also asked me to wait for him. ...

We hardly ever have sex anymore! Is my vagina too big, or is his penis too small?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year. When we first started dating, we were very sexually active. However, we aren’t anymore, well we have sex but its barely ever and I have make him want to and when we are laying in bed and i ...

I love my boyfriend very much but I hate that he doesn't work and I pay for everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfiend for just over 3 years now and I love him very much but I hate the fact that he does not work and I have to pay for everything. He says that he is looking for work but all he every does is sit on social networking sites ...

Can this relationship be saved? I think I was driving him into another girl's arms!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I found out that my boyfriend who I have been with for over 6 months has been texting another girl for about a week. I called the girl myself to ask what was going on and she had said the the day before he told her that he loves her and would date ...

My girlfriend wanted to kiss her male friend! Can I trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has just told me that she wanted to kiss her male friend while she was on a night out where he happened to be. She didnt kiss him but should i be worried by the fact she wanted to? Also i tried telling her i dont want her to keep in ...

How do I tell my neighbour I don't like him the way he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Hey,i need advice on how to tell my next door neighbor that i dont like him in the way he likes me. My next door neighbor is 1 year older than me , he has had a crush on me for 2 years now , and im not joking about that. He trys to make me jealous ...

Do I have the right to be hurt and upset because my boyfriend didn't get me anything for our anniversary?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have always had a challenging yet loving relationship. There's a very strong mutual attraction and although I don't know if he is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, I have a lot of love for him. He is pretty ...

6 strangers, 6 one-night stands and no condoms! And yet she still shows no remorse!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - How would you feel if you found out the women you love had slept with 7 guys before you, but... 6 of them were one night stands in the space of 2 years, and no protection was used? What does that say about the women you love and who she used to ...

I broke up with my boyfriend just to spend 9 days with him, but now he doesn't want to see me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - this year i took part in a show and one of the boys doing the show i got on with really well. at that time i had a boyfriend but as i started seeing more of this other boy, i started to develop feelings for him and i didnt know what to do. when he ...

He's in love with someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (?) - I have been with my Boy friend for a year and a half and we have our ups and downs and at one point I left as he was not given me what I wanted. he made a real effort and I finaly came round because he told me he loved me and that was horrible with ...

Do actions really speak louder than words? He never compliments me or tells me he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for 3 and a half years. He has said he loves me about 3 or 4 times in our entire relationship, and it has always been prompted. He rarely tells me he likes me, cares about me, is proud of me, compliments me, ...

I don't know how to keep maintaining this LDR with my boyfriend, and I feel like his parents don't approve of me. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Maintaining a long-term relationship with my boyfriend of five years has become unbearable for a while now, more so that he's away for two months to work in another country. I am deeply hurt knowing that his family never approved of me. I guess I am ...

My girlfriend has arranged for me to have sex with her friends! Should I run a mile?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I know how this is going to sound but it's the truth, I swear to God. I've been with my girlfriend for three years now. She's the woman of my dreams to say the least and our sex life has always been fantastic. However, I've discovered a sid...

I know I have to leave him for good, but my heart is saying otherwise. Please help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - confused and felling stupied Ive bin in my relationship for 15yrs, have 2 lovely boys, but their father is such a looser, abusers the 3 of us mentally but also physically abusers me, I feel like a bad mum allowing my children to grow up around h...

What are the steps in having a healthy relationship? And how can I get my boyfriend to propose to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - What can i do to make my boyfriend propose marriage to me? What are the steps to a healthy relationship?...

I unloaded on him during an argument, now he's shut up shop, how do I get him back?

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26 August 2009 (F) - Me and my honey have been together for 2years we have a 7m old baby together things have been ruff latly im always tired dont get much help but he does hes share any ways stress and me dont go together im not any good with it and it isnt an excuse i ...

How do I get through to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I need help! I had an emotional affair about 9 months ago but it was because i didnt love my gf "K". The other girl "A" stole my heart and apparently i stole hers. "A" now cant bring herself to trust me so that i may prove that i love her and "K" ...

Is passion in a relationship just a fairytale?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years. We only see each other on weekends because he has been building a house. He is a truthful, loyal, intelligent man. My problem is that he lacks passion. He doesn't really enjoy kissing and is ...

How do I get him to see he doesn't treat me well?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - ok well here goes i really need some help with whats going on in my life, im young and i have started out at a bad start already i will be 19 years old next month got a wonderful lil girl, i had her with my bf xbf what ever he is. im very conf...

After finding out what he did, I don't know if I love him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - so i'm 21 and have been with my bf (who is also 21) for almost 4 years. about a year after we started dating I went to a guys house that I worked with and made out with him, the next day I told my bf what happened (but not all the details) he ...

Things got weird between us and I don't know where we stand

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

26 August 2009 (?) - hey :)ok so me and this guy "R" have known each other about 6 years but i would only say we've been proper mates for about 3. anyway ive never really liked him before, id say hes always just been one of my better boy friends. recently though we been ...

I'm tired of waiting for him to make a decision

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26 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 5 years. I admit the 1st 2 didn't mean much because for 1 we were just friends having fun and secondly he had a gf (who he had been datin since the 10th grade and we are now 26) however she lived in Rhode island. We ...

Sometimes I yearn for the single life and the thrill of a first kiss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I am in a committed relationship, but at times I still want to see other girls, I still want to be in single life, and have that thrill of the first kiss. Sometimes I feel like my current girlfriend doesn't even appreciate me. What do I do?...

My insecurity is undermining my relationship -- help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend gave me an ultimatum... we've been together for 3 years, and he's my first boyfriend, I'm 20, he's 24. The thing is, we've had our ups and downs, he has matured a lot, but now I seem to be the one with the problem. Mainly, I have issues ...

I love him, but could it be that I'd be better off without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now and we are expecting our first child, i am now 7 months pregnant, i am 18 and he is 22, although we wasnt together long before we concieved we both knew it was love at first sight, we were made for ...