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Archived questions from: 1 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Sibling rivalry. What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Hi all, I'm at my wit's end, I don't know where else to go. I have a very strange issue of sibling rivalry that is not exactly sibling rivalry. I'll try to explain as succinctly as possible [warning: LONG] I live in a household where intell...

Should I wait for my boyfriend of 7 years to propose to me or should I start looking for a new guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years and though he has expressed that he wants to marry me, he says he can't marry me yet due to limited finances. The problem is, I know him well enough. Limited finances has never been a hindrance...

Sinister situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Ok,this is really,really creepy-I just want some opinions on what this could be-sorry it's a bit long.I met my boyfriend 4 years ago and he didn't seem remotely obsessive-we didnt see each other very often either,but he always seemed to know things ...

I've only let it get to a peck on the lips. I've no desire so should I really be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I'm 27 and I've never been in a proper, long-term relationship. First, work got in the way and then I had a few very short term relationships with guys who didn't treat me well. Recently I met a great guy. He's so nice, treats me really well, res...

Should I leave my husband and go it alone, or should I stay and risk being unhappy for the rest of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - thinking of leaving my husband of 7 years. He is a kind caring consdierate person who would do anything for anyone but there are a few issues i just cannot live with. they are : he hits and verbally abuses our children calling them stupid, he swears ...

I'm finding it hard to trust him since what happened before...and his friends aren't a good influence on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance since high school...we had our ups and downs but were going strong for a while...we had our first child 3 1/2 yrs ago. When my son was 4 months old I found out that he was messing with someone that he was working with. ...

Me and my boyfriend are having lots of issues around sex. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 1/2 years now. we have quite a few issues when it comes to sex. we were 16 when we started having sex, and i was self concious because he couldnt make me orgasm...so i faked it because he hated that he ...

Whatever the cost, I'm prepared to pay it to get my ex back. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Hi i'm new to this but would appreciate any advice. I met my ex nearly three years ago and we clicked straight away but it took me 9 months to ask her out. We had been together just over two yeras when she told me it was over. things had been...

My boyfriend never makes time for me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years now and im in a situation where im not exactly sure what to do anymore. i was diagnosed with depression around 6 months after we started going out and have recently ( 3 months ago) stopped ...

I want to leave him, but I don't want to take our son away from him either! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now we live together and have a 13month old son...problem is we constantly arguing and fighting because if always thinks i am lying and hiding things away from him when infact he is the one who is ...

I don't want to end things with my boyfriend, but what can I do about his immaturity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so I was pretty desperate one night and decided to browse the internet for some help and came across this website! My problem is my immature boyfriend. We have been going out for a little more than a year now, and I really really like him...

When I am with a woman I care about, why do I let their sexual history bother me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - I don't think I'm alone, but why is it sex to me often seems like the great equalizer? I've been with women who have long and varied sexual histories and it's never bothered me. But on the few occasions when I was with a woman who I cared about, ...

Should I just be satisfied with his friendship and forget about him later when we get out of touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - i have a boy in my mind and think of proposing him but i cant imagine how he would react and i dont want to loose him since he may not like my idea or may be liking another girl and i think i even dont know how to get started and blurt out ...

Marriage without a wedding or rings? This isn't how I imagined it...and how do I tell my family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - As most women do I have always dreamt of a nice engagement and wedding once I found the man of my dreams. I never cared about the price of the ring or how elaborate the wedding would be I just expected to have something special and memorable. Now, ...

I love them both, how do I pick just one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Long story short, I love 2 great Men. I have made some bad decisions, and want to choose right this time! "A" and I met a year ago on dating site. After 2 phone calls, I booked a flight to meet him. 4 amazing months with him, and I fell hard....

He threatens to leave me, should I just let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I need some answers, recently me and my fiance of 2 yrs have been having problems a couple of months ago I found some text messages from his phone to a girl and when I confronted him about them he said that it wasnt him and that a friend from work ...