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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I am a twenty years old girl, im dating this 27 years old guy. I like dating older guys because they are mature and also i want to settle down and have a serious relationship. He told me about his ex, they were dating for 9 years so I asked him if he still love her and he said i would lie to u if i said no but i know that we can't b together. he would listent 2 sad songs and smoke infront of me. then i found out that he has a picture of her on his computer but she lives in another country and its been like 4 or 5 years since they've splited. i feel like hes with me to forget her but he denies it and say that he loves me!!!wat should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): this man is mourning the loss of his relationship almost 5 years later? in the meanwhile he is using you just to pass the time. this is not fair to you. you are so young and deserve someone to love you for yourself and not be a stand in or second best gf. let him mope about for his lost love while you go out and find a true love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): Ask yourself one question. Don't you deserve someone who will appreciate YOU and give YOU their undivided attention?Who can have a relationship with someone mooning about over an image on a computer. Start by valuing yourself. It may not be easy to give this man uo, but he doesn't seem devoted to you, does he???
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