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Archived questions from: 18 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I can't stop thinking about how he once left me for another woman. Is it going to work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. He has broken up with me a few times then comes right back to me apologizing and claiming that he didn't know what he was thinking. Our last break up was because he left me for anot...

Are looks really that important?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - To sum the whole problem up, everyone thinks and says my boyfriend is ugly. We're in a long distance relationship, therefore most of my friends haven't even seen him closely, but when they see his pics they all start screaming at me about how ugly ...

He's cheating on her with me, she's pregnant and when they argue it makes me happy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - oh my god i know this is going to sound really strange but i was dumped my guy last year for the gf before me the reason because he still loved her and the oher thing she told him to get rid of me Anyway after we split carried on sleeping together...

Do you think I'm wrong for wanting to call our relationship quits because she won't let me move back in with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend has been together for two years. I moved with her into her place. we got into a fight so she kicked me out. she still wants to be a couple(you know go out together, i come over every other day, still have sex...ect) but she ...

I'm sick of fighting and want us to break up... how do I do that without killing him inside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and going on nine months now. Since the beginning, people have wondered how we've been able to stand each other this long. Sure, we have a ton in common and we now know way too much about each ...

Do I hang on in there in the hope it is a blip or end the relationship? I feel like I'm in limbo....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Have any of you ever been in a relationship where you feel like you are no longer going out with your partner yet nothing has been said by the other person? For the last year I have felt like my boyfriend, who is in his mid-thirties, is completely ...

Debate over if this is a good idea, or if I'm missing out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - ok, im totally in love with my boyfriend. the thing is, im torn between wanting to spend the res tof my life with him and thinking im too young to be serious with someone. we got together when i was 16 and hes the only guy ive ever slept with. ...

I really need to know what he's thinking..and need advice from guys!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I REALLY need advice!! My boyfriend and I finished in June and I was very upset. However for about a month afterwards we were still talking every day, meeting up and generally trying to fix things. He believed that the break up was down to me not ...

I put alot of effort into this relationship but it is never acknowledged!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been in a relationship with someone I adore for just under a year. Against better judgment I decided to move in with my boyfriend after being given the ultimatum to move in or we stop seeing each other. I feel as though I have pu...

Who should I be with...my ex or my fiance? I love them both!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I have a major problem. I have been together with my fiance for just over 3 years. We have our ups and downs. I always find myself yelling at him but he will do everything from my laundry to rubbing my feet. However he has also hurt me in the past ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm the one ruining our sex life, when it's him that's bringing the porn dvd's to bed with us!! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Porn Wars :My boyfriend is telling me i am sabbotoging our sex life and our relationship. I feel it is he that is. We just made up over a 4 day battle cuz last week he was busy messin w/his tools, so i got in the bath. When i got out of the tub i ...

He makes me feel like an aweful person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - For a long time my partner has told me i talk down to him, he has never specified how, or what i say, or how i say it, he just insists i make him feel unhappy. There are plenty of things going on in his life which make him unhappy, a bad ...

Help me understand this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Dear all, there is someone i really like, and we were about to become a bf/gf but, 3 months ago a problem happened, he stopped talking to me for a month, the worst month of my life actually, after this month he came back and said he is ready to o...

He doesn't take time out of his day to text or call me, is he interested in me or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Ok So I have been seeing this guy for a month and a few weeks, I met him down the shore and he is a fun and outgoing person like myself. He has taken me on a few dates and now I been staying over his house… we recently had sex after the month of ...

Choosing between 2 men - if I could roll them together then that would be the perfect man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Hi I am in love with 2 guys and both have asked me to marry them. How on earth do I choose? I was dating guy 1 but we broke up and I started dating guy 2. I have only dated guy 2 for 4 months where as I dated guy 1 for 1 1/2 years. The break...

I'm fed up of this relationship but I'm scared no-one else will want me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - im stuck in a rut my partner can be very abusive verbally and im gettin fed up of it, at the weekend an aqaintance of mine was flirting like mad with me and iv thought of nothing else but him since, am i looking for a way out? my relationship is not ...

Troubled in Texas

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a man for almost four years..starting off in the relationship he was very loving and supportive mentally ,physically, financially...I was not working when we met...though he knew that I were off work due to an on the ...

Should I let go of this relationship or is there a way for both of us to be happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - hi to all, i'm eighteen and my boyfriend's twenty. we had a number of quarrels always over the same old problem; girls. everything was so perfect in our relationship, no flaws, nothing at all. that's when it aroused my suspicion. i decided to check ...

Boyfriend's depressed and I'm wondering how I can help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Hi, ive been going out with my my bf for about four months and as we were housemates and friends first we live together. hes just started full time work a few weeks ago and is often really tired and stressed out by the time he comes home. i know...

I'm not sure I'm brave enough to break up with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I am in a dilemma. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years now...long time! I do love him and most of the time everything is perfect...however every few weeks we have arguments about random things and I get so many doubts about our ...

We're arguing and not seeing each other as much

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18 August 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3/4 years now and we both love each other very much. but recently we have been arguing about not seeing each other as much as id like to see him more than once a week. he works nights as a cleaner ...

Was it right for him to give me gifts after what he did to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - i Dont kno what to do. When I was 14 this guy who used to come and fix things around the house when my mom called him .I knew this guy my whole life and he came around alot i was kinda poor and didnt have alot of friends but this guy was always nice ...

How do I stop the fighting all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year in two weeks and we love eachother and have a great sex life and are very happy but, we fight a lot. I get angry when he sits on the computer for hours and ignores me or leaves and comes back 4 hours ...

He seems insensitive - should I dump him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Hi - I have been with my boyfriend 3 years but I am worrying we are just not compatible because every now and then he says the most insensitive things. Just one example which plays on my mind and still upsets me was before Xmas my 92 year old ...

People think I"m gay but I"m not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - I got a qestion i like women alot and im completly attracted to them, i consider my self to be pretty masculine im not into sports much but i like MMA and working out and video games. I dont watch football or basket ball i like sports i can play. ...

Am I out of order for not wanting him to be around these strippers all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - So, My boyfriend owns a strip club. It may sound sleazy but he actually took it over after his brother that owned it died and it does make a lot of money so I would not want to ask him not to give that up. and I actually met him working as a ...

Why won't he even remove his ex's from the social networking site?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have know each other for nearly ten years. We've been in a relationship for nearly five. Before me he only had three serious relationships. One we filed a restraining order against, and has no bearing here. The other two were bad ...

A wonderful b/f, vs. first love recovered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Hi, so this is long, but I need help. April 2006. I met someone - I didn't know then that he would change my entire life. How could I have possibly known? It started out easily enough, that much was true. We just talked online at first. It was so...

We don't spend enough time together, and I want to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - i'm having a hard time understanding how come i can't break up with my boyfriend. He's hasn't done anything wrong I just wish we spent more time together, i'm trying to be understanding because he's a firefighter plus he runs a 24 hour business.i ...

I need closure!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I NEED CLOSURE!! How do I go about gettin closure from a 'relationship' when the other person involved doesn't want anything to do with me and willpobably just laaugh at me??? I came out of a 'friends with benfits' situation about 4 years ...

Do I confront him about his liking me as more than a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I'm engaged to an amazing girl and gay but my best friend is in love with me. Him and I do like everything together. People are telling me that it's obvious he likes me. My mom even told me it's obvious that he's in love with me. I just don't want ...

Torn between family and fiancee...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Dear Aunties, Lately I have been an emotional wreck. I am torn between being closer to my family and starting a family with my soon to be husband. Right now I am 22 and he is 28. We met 3 years ago, at that time I just moved from California and n...

Do I have the right to be angry with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six months, which was on my birthday. Which was two days ago. All he did for my birthday was give me a five dollar headscratcher, which I'm pretty sure he didn't even buy (his mom wanted one, and gave me money to ...