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*icole21
writes:hi i am 21 and my boyfriend is 24 and we have 2 kids,he does not tell me that he loves me anymore and he wants to everything alone. we use to do everything together but not anymore.... well i just want to now if he wants to be with me or does he have someone else or does he just want to be single again? Reply to this Question
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Well Nicole, I'd say warning bells are going off reading your post...he's obviously changed towards you, has he been behaving differently towards the children? What has he been doing alone that you used to do together?You really aren't going to know for sure unless you sit down and talk to him, and spending hours speculating on what he's feeling/thinking/doing is only going to land you in the loony bin! Can you remember at what point he stopped saying he loved you? Did something happen to stress him out at this point?If you're in a long term relationship, sometimes it's more like taking advantage of the familiarity you share rather than 'he's got someone else' type issue.How often do you say you love him? Sometimes it might be if you initiate this, reciprocation will follow. Do little things for him like leave him a love note on his pillow, or in his lunchbox! Make him aware of how much you love him and just be honest in your feelings.
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