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Not once has he said he loves me but sends messages to his other girl telling her he loves her and misses her!

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Question - (10 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2009)
A female Belize age 36-40, *avanna writes:

i am stuck in a relationship thats not really a relationship. we started to talk back in 07 and still talking. only thing is that he is a lier and a cheat. see when we first start talking we were not a we just fb's but i got attached and some how he did too. but he just cant be with me at first it was just out there i accepted it and i dont no why. now he hides and lies about everything. i checked his phone and he got text message and emails from this one chick. she has been around he clams she is his hoe yeah right i thought because i found vedios of them to haven sex he clams that its old and blah blah blah.....

i am getting so tired of this he say he tell her thing just because he want her to hoe for him yeah right i think. and he tells me he care for me alot but no once have he said i love you but the text messages i seen to the other chick says i love u miss u and i dont get none of that ever what should i do i cant leave because i love him so much but i am hurtting deeply and i dont no what to do plz help

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009):

Honestly it sound like you love the man you want him to be and not the man he clearly is.

Read your post and without incuding any information from your brain/heart ask yourself what you would advise your friend to do. Sorry i think its over and hes using you.

Time to finish it for you, It will hurt but dont you deserve better?

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