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male
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36-40,
*iket389
writes: Am i going crazy? am i really like this or does she just turn things around? this past weekend the girl ive been talking to sure made me feel like it... She had been really upset about her ex the last week for whatever reason and kind of ignored me cuz she was "SO" upset so saturday i text her to see how she was and she said really upset still.. doing what i thought was right i said i'll leave you be ik ur upset i hope everything is ok im here if you need anything.. so i went out with friends and aroun midnite she texts me and asks whats up.. i tell her and she proceeds to tell me she out with 3 guy friends... one of whom she was seeing a lil while back.. this girl has really hurt me before.. Not saying anything bout who she was with i just told her i was upset cuz she ignored me for two days cuz she was upset and didn't want to be around guys and then goes out.. and stayed where the kids were from.. after me being upset about just that she starts with Im allowed to have friends i'll hang out with whoever i want and i never asked her to hang out.. and all this other stuff making me feel like an idiot.. i was just upset cuz i wanted to spend time with her and make her feel better... shes making me seem like im trying to control her? just feel torn apart... was i wrong for saying i was upset?
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reader, talon662 +, writes (12 August 2009):
Just leave her. You don't need extra complications from her. If the jury was made up of your Mom, Juliet (Romeo's girlfriend), Celine Dion, Cinderella, The Little Mermaid, Belle from Beauty and the Beast, Michael Jackson, and all five guys from "Queer Eye For The Straight Guy", even THEY would reach a UNANIMOUS verdict:
WUSSY!
They might even ask you to provide evidence that you're MALE... based on your testimony here.
And you've only got yourself to thank for it.
You did it all.
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