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Archived questions from: 2 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I decide who to be with? My boyfriend, or my ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I have an ongoing problem that i really need help with.. I am a girl and have a boyfriend of 3 years. I am bisexual before i met him i was with a girl for 4 years. Before i met him, i moved far away from the girl and she was supposed to move with me ...

My "best friend" asked out the girl I like just to spite me..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - I'm in love with this girl whose been like my best friend for years, and all my best friends knew about then one of them spitefully asked her out on a date and she said yes even though shes told my friend she dosent like him in that way. They dont ...

Is he just playing games or does he actually want to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so it's been a long time and I'm getting into the dating game. It's been fun and challenging, but I'm not serious nor am I trying to find my next husband. But, I went to a family gathering a month ago and my cousin's friend attended....

What's her problem?

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2 August 2009 (M) - I have a friend who iv been talking to for almost a month would be longer but the problem is she will talk to me for one day or 2 max and then not say anything for a week or more... and when she does message me its not till like 2 my time 1 hers. ...

How can I move forward with my broken heart in pieces...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm Steve I broke up with my boyfriend almost 2 months ago and I still miss him a lot, he dumped me in a very bad way, he really broke my heart with all the things he said, I'm trying my best to move forward but every day it gets harder and ...

Is it normal that when my boyfriend acts cold, distant, and makes me feel rejected that I feel sad and want to cry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - Is it normal that when my boyfriend acts cold, distant, and makes me feel rejected that I feel sad and want to cry? I plan on talking to him today about how he makes me feel sometimes like he doesn't care and that he needs to show that he loves me ...

Chucked out the house for being seen naked!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - I am 28 years old male. I used to live in my aunty's house and i was in a lot of stress due to studies, work and my father's health. I had some very bad cases with my cousin sister in laws and aunt. I had my bathroom door unlocked and my cousin's ...

Help! I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I met this guy 5 months ago and we talked on the phone every day and we were texting each other all the time but he lives in another state, sometimes we had some fights over the phone because I blame him when he didn't call me back. I made ...

I am confused whether to text him or not about the money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - My ex and I were in the middle of settling what he owes me. While chasing him to pay, at first he was rude in replying to my messages. So I told him that I didn't deserve to be treated that way coz I didn't do anything to him. I just wanted my money ...

Need to get my rocks off before settling down... but it may be too late

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - Ok, so my fiance has pretty much made me feel as though I'm Satan himself for even considering asking questions like this, but here it goes. We got engaged in February and I really love this girl, I want to marry her (hence the engagement... duh). ...

We have a baby together, but conflicts are pushing us apart...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have a child together (3 months), we live together. But, there's constant conflicts that take place...I've tried writing letters to her, love letters, offered to go out on a date while someone watches our son. And she would ...

He said he needs time to mend his ego and now he is back on the online dating site!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I met a man two months ago online. On our first meeting, I didn't see him as my type (looks and views). But, he had something that drew me in. With every date, I grew more fond of him. He seemed loving, sweet and treated my like a princess. We ...

Advice sought regarding a girl who has a partner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - I write this seeking confirmation that what I am doing is right more than anything, but also to gauge opinion and see what other people think as well. Sometimes when you’re in the middle of something it’s easy to lose a sense of reality! I apologise ...

How can I help those around me....and how can I help myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - Hello everybody. I have since realised that Im a confused man.I discovered this in my present relationship. I have been in this relationship for nearly four years now. I have read a lot on relationships, manipulation, deception, personality ...

Should I believe that he is working all weekend hence why he cant see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - If you partner didn't text you back when they told you they would then would it be a deal breaker for you? I am getting increasingly frustrated with my 36 year old partner. We are in a long distance relationship. Just recently he has become very ...

I just cant give up on this relationship, is there any hope for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years..we met at work. and he was the man of my dreams for the first time in my life I felt completely whole. I had never had someone who satisfied me in every way I felt so lucky! He wanted me to move in ...

I love him but he has a girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for about 1 1/2 years now but we'd never really talked, I mean at first he was good friends with one of my friends and they kinda liked each other. I always thought he was cute but i never really knew him. my friend talked to ...

Scared of getting toooooo close...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - Well I was like 9 or 10 when I met this boy who was a little younger than me and he moved in to my street. My mum and dad got friendly with his mum and dad so I saw him a lot. One evening I went to his house and was playing a gGame with him b...

Help! My relationship seems to be going downhill...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - Hey - I am a 45 year old male. I met this fabulous woman who is just a few years younger online. When we met both she and I were going through a bad patch in our respective relationships with other partners. Like birds of a feather flock together we ...

Why has she contacted me again to set me up with other girls??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - we are both in our 20,s We never went out but had serious chemistry. We were on the verge of going out then her ex came back into the picture. She never got back with him but I guess talking to him made her like him more and me less. She played...

I'm pregnant, but I feel that if my boyfriend doesn't want a baby with me then he shouldn't be involved. Is this right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I was planning to get married shortly but my boyfriend has 2 children and doesn't want anymore. I did want another child and have tried everything to get him to change his mind but he will not budge. Although we have been very careful and used ...

How can I get over him while living in the same house as him?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I'll get right to the point cause this is a long one. The relationship I have is a relationship that started in a very bad way. We BOTH were engaged to other people and we became good friends while he was doing work on my house. We were both unh...

He can't stop drinking and complains about watching the kids. Should I marry him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - Me and this guy have been dating monogamously for about 2 years. He proposed may of this year. I am 24 he is 42. I have two children and never married, he has no children and married once. We have a great relationship other than a little struggle on ...

I'm trying to make our marraige work so I had sex with his brother..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - so i met my husband and 9 month into our relationship i found out i was pregnant and either get married and keep the baby or get an abortion so i chose to be married. well a month before i found out i was pregnant i was cheatin on him with his ...

I feel dirty and like a dumb bimbo to him when he watches porn. Please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - heres the deal. i am in love, i know it for sure. my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost two years, the first year was amazing. i lost my virginity to him .. as a real sexual experiance because i was raped so hes not technically my first.. ...

The way he treats me makes me feel like a slave. Should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - Hi guys. I'm sorry. My story is a little bit long and I'm not good at English but I try to write as well as I can. Therefore, it might be hard to read for some guys. Pleaser read this story all and give me a good advice whether I should move on o...

Girlfriend goes out clubbing/drinking with friends and disappears. Am I wrong to wonder what she's doing and why I don't' hear from her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - Sorry in advance for the length of this, I want to provide as much background as I can to help set the mood for my question. I have been seeing my girlfriend for about 10 months and I'm concerned that something is wrong. We don't live together ...

My b/f doesn't satisfy me sexually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - Ive been dating my bf for 8 mths now, we have a great connection.We are in our mid to late 20s with previous relationship experiences prior to us dating. We have reached level of intimacy, though I'm hitting a stale mate at a point in which makes ...

My boyfriend is obsessed with licking my toes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has this weird obsession with licking my toes and it kinda creeps me out when he licks my toes but im afraid that if i don't let him lick my toes he'll break up with me and go out with some other girl who will let him lick their toes ...

Do actions speak louder than words?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - I'm quite confused here and I need help! I'm starting to like a guy at my workplace. He started flirting with me and I wasn't very interested. I thought he was attractive but I was still in recovery from my ex and I wasn't paying much attentio...

Not cheating, but accused of it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - I know I'm not perfect, and don't pretend to be. My girlfriend of several years is convinced I have been cheating on her, when in fact, I have not. What should I do? Thanks...

Was my instinct right about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) - im very confused at the moment. 7 days ago my ex fiance from 6 years ago contacted via email to do this facebook thing. i was happy to hear from him because i thought at last it was a chance to clear the air from the past. we had a very bad split...