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Archived questions from: 12 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Men, please help me? Is watching tranny porn normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Almost a year ago this month we met. He was obsessed with my sex!! Wanted it all the time, everyday every night....now he is always tired when he comes home from work. Or he complains about how it sucks getting old his body is out of shape. I left ...

How do I end this affair with a married man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - So, I have been seeing a married man. Didn't find out until the third time we met that he was married, because something was telling me there was something not rite. We usually meet up about once a week for a few hours then go our separate ways. ...

It upsets me that even NOW she is still saying things behind my back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - After my boyfriend and I broke up, I went to my best friend for comfort. She helped me, but there were times when she was tired of hearing me sob about him, so she didn't console me as much. During this time, my boyfriend started talking to her to ...

I don't feel special in this relationship - I feel like I'm in her shadow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - hello, I have to warn you guys of the length of this post- but I hope a few of you read it and give me some good advice. I have been with a man for about 2 years and to be honest things are pretty good. We live together and he is a wonderful part...

Every year when we go back to school he usually ignores me and blocks me out of his life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I have been in an off and on relationship for the past 4 years. This guy and I have summer houses beside each other. I only see him in the summer. There are a few problems, he lives 3 hours away from where I live in the winter and my parent’s don’t ...

I literally flip out thinking that when we have sex he is thinking of them or that he will find them sexier than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I really need help! Duh, the site lol anyways, i met my amazing man and 3 months later we were married. (His cousin is my best friend so i did know of him) well he was single for 5 years prior to me and has came used to checking out everything that ...

My head is all mixed up in this affair I'm having.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I met a man two and half years ago. I was going thro a divorce and he said he was leaving his wife. having had affair for a year with him he did leave his wife.He has become obsessive and controlling to the point he has turned my room upside down. ...

I'm tired of fighting with him and I need help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I don't really know where to begin. My boyfriend and I have always had our ups and downs. (A lot more downs than ups) We weren't together when we started 'messing' around. He was still with his ex (not during the messing) but around there rou...

How do I trust my boyfriend again after his sex addiction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I need advice on how to deal with my boyfriends sexual addiction. He is currently in therapy, has been for about a month and a half. How do I begin to trust him again? ...

I don't want to be like her dog but I want her back. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - I am 25 years old with no children and my girlfriend is 26 with a 9 year old son. We have been together for 3 months which doesn't seem long but it was a pretty intense 3 months. We seemed to be doing really good until about the beginning of the ...

My boyfriend prefers porn to hot sex with me - and lies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 18 months now and at first we had an amazingly erotic and stimulating sex life, did it everywhere, all the time. Things started to slow down. I knew that he did porn, I knew he went on prostitute website to ...

Relationship needing help big time please....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - Hi me and my girlfriend split up a little over 1 week ago we moved really fast some people said we were mad the first night we met she never left (moved in) she lived with me for a little over 3 months but I have fallen in love with her so much. ...

I'm afraid that my cheating on my LDR boyfriend will come back to haunt me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 2years. We have been on a long distance relationship. But 7months ago my boyfriend kept distance and he barely communicated with me. So ididnt know what to think about our relationship. I tried to talk to him but ...

After 7.5 years together she wants a break. What can I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend broke up with me out of nowhere so i have dated my ex for 7 years. We have had a rough relationship through the years she cheated on me once along time ago. When we were about 16 she went off with the guy he went to my church...

For 5 years my boyfriend has lied to me about watching porn. What should I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has lied to me for five years about watching porn, what should I do? I feel so uncomfortable that my boyfriend watches porn. I know he used to watch porn a lot when he was single and i know a lot of men do that. But after we started...

Her mixed feelings are driving me mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - After 9 amazing months my girlfriend was having tough times (family and finances) so when the summer started we both had jobs and both lived an hour away. During our 9 months there were no indications that she thought we were 2 serious. I could ...

I cannot stop contacting him, and am hurting real bad.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Hi all, I am really hurting right now, as I guy I have been pursuing doesn;t look like he is interested - even though we has a passionate love afair a month ago when I was on holiday in his country. He has only ever responded to me, and never in...

I'd like some outside perspective on my situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I feel uncomfortable around my boyfriend and at least most of the time. I think it is because of small things, which I take to mean something more serious or which simply cramp my style and we're incompatible on this plane. Here's the sto...

Was lied to about wife being a prostitute...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I've been married to my wife for 6 years. Right when we met and started dating, she told me she had been a prostitute for one night, and felt so bad she never did it again. Throughout our marriage, she's lied to me about a few things (n...

I feel more like a friend with benefits!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for 5 months 3 times a week we play pool cards talk spend time together we have sex once a week, he always comes to my house i have been to his once... i have met is 11 year old daughter but apart from that i have not met ...

Pregnant and he might not be the dad! Help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I'm 26 yrs old and I'm pregnant. At the time i was in a relationship and thought i was pregnant with my boyfriend. I wasnt and we end up breaking up but i didnt tell him i wasnt pregnant because i didnt know for sure. My high school sweetheart and i ...

Will he choose them over us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Me and my best friend are very very close to and 18 years old. He's 19 in 2 months. Over the past 18 months we've argued god knows how many times but always got through whatever has been thrown at the three of us, but heres the problem, me and my ...

I don't know who I want!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for over a year and i was pretty happy, although at times i felt so controlled by him like he didnt like me going out to parties and drinking or anything and he'd get really overprotective. At a friends party one night ...

I'm trying to enforce boundaries and his response is that he might go to Thailand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I have had to set boundaries with my boyfriend as he has treated me badly and I feel bad enforcing them. I would be grateful for opinions on enforcing boundaries in situations like mine. We have a 3 year old and lived together until feb this y...

He calls me his "younger brother" but I get the feeling he might be gay!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - hi im an adult of age 23 , I am a straight and i happen to meet a guy elder than me of around 25 years . he is from the same place where I come from and we got introduced through a common friend of mine. as days passed on we got close to each other ...

I can't maintain an erection with my current partner! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are having some problems with sex. I can't seem to maintain my erections with her. I've never had this problem with any of my previous partners, so I don't believe (and really want to refuse to believe) that it's some sort of ...

My boyfriend doesn't tust me, and now he wants us to just be friends. I'm so confused, what does he really want from me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now, and i am a bit confused as to where this is going. We meet my freshman year in college in the library, he is 23 and i am 20... Every since the first time we got together, we have been INSEPRABLE. That ...

I want to wait before having sex with my boyfriend, but he makes me feel bad about it...and there are other problems too...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - My bf is trying to pressure and manipulate me into having sex with him. I keep saying that I want to wait. Im not saying no, just not right now as I want to know him better and I think trust needs to be built, and that level of trust can only be ...

I don't know what my husband is doing or who he's with and it's driving me crazy!

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12 August 2009 (F) - I have been with this man for 2 years married one year. He is a very smooth talker. until people starting telling me things about him. That he has been with plenty of women, Im is third marriage a couple long term relationships. his wifes left him ...

I'm in love with my Godfather

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

My ex is stalking me and ruining our lives

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - My ex husband and I have a 2 year old daughter together which he continues to use her to get to me and make me feel bad that we're not together anymore. He does nothing but stalk me, harass me, has broken up two of my relationships and lies ...

I was told my BF of 3 years lives with his wife and kids

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - [Mod note - two questions merged] If I was told my bf of 3 year lives with his wife ands kids and he says its not true. What do i do? How do I deal with my issues from my passed relationship its harming my new relationship... ...

She's still friends with the man she had an affair with during her first marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - So I never saw myself on one of these things, ever, but I find myself really confused, so here we go... I'm in love!, she was once married. She had an affair. She has been very honest with me with everything, including the details of how t...

I ruined it, can it be saved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - I've been dating an awesome girl for almost 4 years and she told me she wants a break as my actions at times pushed her away..she loves me most of the time, she says i'm such a great person, all the things she loves about me, etc., but the sway i ...

Jealous, Emotionally unstable, controlling GF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - Hi... How should I say this. I meet the most wonderful women in my life a while ago, shes very interesting, fun, quirky, funny, cute and a very wonderful person overall and I love her dearly and she means the world to me. Except she has ...

He's cheating with a woman he knew 25 years ago! How can I cope with all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I've been married to my husband for 20 years now. We've built a dream together; a life together. We have five beautiful children; our youngest is 12. I simply can not imagine life without my family. I love them all so dearly. So why is it that m...

How do you stop a married guy from hitting on you??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I am single and was on a business trip abroad. My business partner is a very kind helpful person and good fun to be with. He is happily married with a beautiful wife. Suddenly he is sending me very wrong signals. He came to the airport to drop me - ...

Funny little marks under my breasts! Would it be unattractive to men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Okay. This question is mainly for males becuase im wondering what they think. I have little spots (not freckles or beauty marks) probably irritated hair follicles or something under my breasts. there not very dark at all but they personally bother m...

I have erection problems and my wife is quite frustrated. what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - I don't know why am I not horny anymore. I used to be very sexual, but now I almost never feel, the need of sex. I love my wife, 26 years married. I can't say, I'm not attracted to her. I do have ED, but it is unclear why. I do work a lot, b...

Girlfriend refuses to show bikini

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - Hello, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few years now. However now that college has come around, I am living in my dorm room. She told me that she was going to go swimming at the ocean today, and said she had a new bikini. I asked ...