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Archived questions from: 16 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I leave with no money, no help and get the children to understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 13 yrs now and I'm pretty sure I am no longer in love with him. We have 2 children together 6 and 11 and I’m afraid to leave because I don't want to hurt them. Although he doesn't spend much time with them I know they ...

How do I obtain an explanation from him about his feelings related to our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 months recently told me he did not think our relationship was working out. This is very confusing to me because last week, he said we could not break up because we're both in this for something serious (marriage) and we both have ...

He doesn't spend his money on us, his family and he is violent! I need suggestions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Hello all I have much married life problems in my life. My in laws are very kind to me but my husband create many problems. He is very kind to his friends, his relatives, and different people. But all time he has a problem with his own mother, ...

I want to leave him but I can't risk losing the property!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Hi I’m 25 my husband is 61. The problem is I only married him on the rebound trying to hurt my ex. I only ended up hurting myself, as me and my ex have been in touch and finally admitted our feelings are mutual and we were both young and naive. I ...

Would a court take my baby and give it to that monster?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I just found out I was pregnant two weeks ago and I'm only in my seventh week. A week before I found out I was pregnant I broke up with my boyfriend who I had been on and off with for 4 years. Ironically, I was finally through with him for good ...

Everyone thinks I should just get over it, but I cannot form a relationship with my abusive father!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - My father was raised by an abusive step-father and willfully blind mother who did nothing to stop the violence and probably participated in the emotional abuse. It was, by any account, a rotten way to grow up, and it scarred him deeply. He married ...

Why bother taking me out on a date if he was just going to disappear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Dear all another man in my life, another weird situation. I met this guy back in May, we started seeing each other, almost every day and things were going well. He had just come out of a long relationship, so he was holding back and not saying t...

Married, slept with a women at work, am a wreck, what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Met this women at work, we love to talk to eachother and we find eachother attractive, i've been married for ages and am in my 40s, shes 12 years younger. I've been resonably happily married, i always felt a little lonely, i love contact and inti...

Urgent help needed, an ignoring boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - right, me and my boyfriend have been on and off for the past four years. we've planned to have kids in the near future, annd all that. we both lost our virginity a few months back to each other. but this last month things have got difficul...

I don't like the type of communication between my boyfriend and this girl...what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years and we both love each other but recently hes been getting very ratty with me n taking me for granted when he asks me to do stuff for him n if i say no he goes off on one. recently as he ...

He's become a 4plus beers a night kind of guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has always enjoyed a few bottles of beer after work and in evenings. But a few beer is turning into up to 4 a night. Me and his family are very worried that he is now alcohol dependant. What should we do - he wont admit that there is ...

How can I deal with the problems in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two and half years and for the past couple of weeks I have been wondering if it is worth going any further with the relationship. When we fight he'll tell me to F-off, and use phrases like "get F**ked". This do...

Am I a slimebag and need to stop stringing ex along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Help everyone Im so messed up at the moment i dumped my ex as my ex gf the mother of my child told me to so we could get back together, which i dumped my then gf, but my thenmother of my child wh said we could start again if i got rid of her well ...

Feeling alone, when is a person at the bottom of the barrel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Sometimes in the past I have found myself in a situation of extreme loneliness. Like not being able to find a friend in the world:(. During those times I found slight comfort in reading or masturbating, but nothing really cured the desire to go out ...

We've just moved in together and it's me that's doing all the work! I can't move out, so what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I just wondered if anyone has any advice...I've just moved in with my boyf, but we have been together three years. He doesnt do anything around the house. No cooking, cleaning, Nothing!!! I lend him my car to take to work every day, which cuts ...

Can relationships work if one smokes weed and the other doesn't?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. As far as I know, he only does it with his roommates and doesn't pay his own money for the weed. I've smoked a few times when I was younger, and had bad expierences with it, so I generally say no when they ...

Am I part of the reason why he's hurting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Say a guy turns 40 and soon after, his 29 year old girlfriend of 6 years dumps him unceremoniously for a 20 year old. I know that's going to hurt, badly, but I'm wondering how I fit into it: I'm a very attractive (not to toot my own horn, but I get ...

I feel like I'm going to have a relapse with my eating disorder because of this insecurity toward my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I recently had a trust related issue with my bf of three years. I went camping with my family for the weekend and left him home. He told me that he stayed home and hung with some guy friends and whatnot. What he lied to me about was that he went to ...

We don't have sex anymore and I don't know why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Heres my story i bin with this guy for two years now and we do not have sex anymore i just dont get why im not ugly im thin im not loose what so ever im definetly not boring in bed i have done everything and when we use to have sex or id give head ...

He made plans on our day off without consulting me first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have lived together for almost 5 years now and recently became engaged. We moved into a new place a few months ago and are just starting to get to know our neighbors better. Our HOA president lives right accross the street from us ...

He doesn't want kids but I do, how can I talk to him about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months now and we have been really close friends for 6 years prior to starting an actual relationship. I moved in with my boyfriend and his family two months into the relationship due my roommate not ...

Friends for 3 years, sex, and now I don't know where we stand

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - The first person I met in college has been one of my best friends for three years now. I have had feelings for him on and off through the years but never anything serious and I don't know if he's ever had feelings for me. Recently I felt very ...

My g/f hangs out with guys late at night, we're in a LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Hey guys, my girlfriend and I have been dating for a long time and we have a long distance relationship for now. We are seriously committed to this relationship and I want it to last forever. Because frankly I love her more than I have anyone or ...

Why does my sister flirt with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - My sister and i are a year apart im 23 shes 22 we didnt gro up togather and dont have a close relationship. Im seeing her more often now becuse she moved to my state and stays with my other sister that i am close too. When ever i go around she be...

If he really wanted to be with me, he just would be, right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I’m in a really confusing situation right now. I'm sorry this is so long, but in order to help you've got to really understand what's going on. My ex-boyfriend and I broke up in February. We started talking about going back out in March, but it ...

Ugly woman thinks I'm her b/f just because I'm nice to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, There is this girl that lives in the room and board house I'm at who is very attracted to me, but I can barely look at her because she's so ugly. To describe just how ugly she is, not only is she horribly overweight, but she looks li...