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Archived questions from: 27 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My new partner can't understand why I let my ex see our daughter when he gives me no support

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I'm in need of advice. I've been separated from my ex 3years now and I have a daughter by him. Now I am in a relationship with a man who can't understand why I let my daughters father see her when he gives me no money. He does not want me talking to ...

I'm having problems with our sex life...what can I do?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - [Mod note - both were from the same poster, so have combined both] Q1: I have been in this relationship for a few months now, and our life inside the bedroom is so drab. I am not even aroused any more. She will start to initiate and I quickly lo...

I've started feeling really bored, and like a really boring person! Has anyone else felt this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about seven months now. In the past two years, my life has been a roller coaster of emotions. I previously was dating a really bad person that was nothing short of a sociopath, my parents divorced each other ...

Brother in law is abusive and a jerk and I don't want problems in the family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - My husband's brother abuses his wife, he is an alcoholic, and gets a really bad temper, but is in denial. About 7 years ago before my husband and I were married (we were just friends) my husband's brother got in my face and screamed at me and ...

He's STILL unemployed! Is he just feeding me empty promises?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - so my boyfriend and i have been together close to a year and a half now. he has been unemployed for a loooooooong time. i love him so much but my patience is starting to wear thin. he is not very motivated to find a job. he is living with family ...

Do I accept his brutal honesty? Or get out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - So a couple of days ago was my 2nd anniversary with my boyfriend. It's been an odd two years - mostly happy moments but with a couple of major unhappy ones. I'll give the full history and this might be long: We had a happy relationship for...

Do I stay with my boyfriend or leave him but run the risk of being alone forever?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Hi im 22 and im so confused....I dont know if i should leave my partner or stay...im a single mom off a gorgeous little boy...my partner used to be such a nice guy...now his dad has terminal cancer hes changed so much...a few hours ago i refused to ...

Why would a woman who's recently changed her appearance start going out all the time with friends instead of being at home with family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Why would a married woman of 10 years loose alot of weight and start staying out with her friends rather than come home to her family. She says she hasn't done anything wrong, but in her words "she looks so good she just wants to go out with her ...

How do I get rid of these feelings that I want to be with a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I am not cheating, nor do I plan on cheating on my boyfriend, but I have been with women before and he knows it. I've been feeling lately that I want to be with a woman, and I really want to tell my boyfriend without him wanting to join in (again). ...

Feel like I'm second-best: how do I convince him that I'm the one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Let me just get to the point. There's this guy that I have been in and out of a relationship with for years. He says he loves me, and I will always have a place in his heart. He also says that he would never let me go no matter what obstacles may ...

Everything is going great with this guy, but I want to see him more often. Am I asking for too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (?) - I have a new guy I have been dating for about two months. Everything is going great. I Love him so much and he says he does too. He treats me well and does all the things a woman would love from his man. The only problem is I miss him more and want ...

Male Vs Female; A Debate On The Male Obsession With A Woman’s Past

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - After recently seeing a large number of posts on this site from men asking how to deal with a woman’s sexual past, I wondered why men were so concerned with something that at the end of the day, cannot be changed. So I entered into a conversation ...

I don't know what to do with my life since my girlfriend went back to her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - met a divorced girl just under 2 years ago with a 3 year old boy she been through a tough relationship with her ex im not rich or well off but i did offer her love and affection always and made lots of effort with her son..i took him to thomasland ...

Why am I so attached to my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - We started dating about 8 months ago and it was the most amazing relationship i had ever been in. we did everything together, we were both very deeply in love. But things got a little rough over the summer considering we are both 16 neither of us ...

I cannot carry on like this: I've been in love with my friend for years and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I am in love with my best friend but she has a boyfriend we have been seeing each other behind his back for the last two years "I know this is wrong" but it seems impossible to break off from it, its been on and off so many times she said she wants ...

What are the signs that an ex might get back with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - How do you know for sure if your ex boyf is not going to come back to you?? I have been with my guy for over a year..and well we had many breakups in the last 6-7 months..nearly 1 each of those months. I think he broke up out of fear...cos the ...

My soulmate has 2 children and an unstable ex wife, please help me/us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I know it's long, but please read and help! My boyfriend has 2 little girls, ages 6 and 7. We have been together for 8 months. I feel as though he is truly my soulmate, and he feels the same. We are both the kind of people that lead very simple ...

Why would he bring his gay friend along on dates, is he gay himself, or is there something else? help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Hi I started seeing this guy from the Middle East and really enjoyed him . The thing was he was always with his friend. His friend is married and 'bi' and would show up on our dates and call if he wasn't there! I mean it felt like his friend was his ...

My girlfriend completely overreacted when I couldnt send her money! What should I do in this situation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Hi viewers. I have this problem. My girlfriend and I are in our relationship for six months and we have had our ups and downs. Until one day last week, she was robbed at knifepoint while she was in the Philippines with her family. When she told me ...

Relationship gone wrong- Pakistani and Canadian woman cultural conflicts or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - About 8 months ago I met a Pakistani man and we became friends. He was a total gentleman and we really enjoyed getting to know eachother's friends an cultures. We were seeing eachother almost everyday for about 5 months and after awhile it ...

Do you think caring about me as an individual will come in time? Or am I just kidding myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I'm well aware there are different levels of love. Lust, being in love and then over time that deep caring and shared bond.the man I'm seeing says he loves me. I genuinely feel like he does. When I'm with him he says all the right things and it ...

I've lost the man I love over something so stupid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Ok well this is gonna be quite long (sorry) but I desperately need some help. Please be honest with me, I can take any criticism where it's due, but please don't judge me. Ok, so, last year, Id just gone 18 and I was going out with someone . a...

I don't want to lose him again but he is recieving sexual messages from a man! How do I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - this is gonna be long sorry. but i gotta explain the whole story. in 2005 i got with this guy, everything was great until last year around valentines day, he started drifting off. well around march we split up. it was horrible breakup i hit him. but ...

I'm confused - is this guy over me or is there a chance he never really got over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - i've liked this guy for 2 years. and now i'm just confused.2 years ago we liked each other i went to a party hooked up wit some guy and the guy i've liked never spoke to me again and i understood i guess.then year ago i see him he doesnt say hi to ...

I don't know if I can trust my boyfriend, I'm scared he will leave me again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I don't know if I can trust my boyfriend. We were a couple for 15 months before and it ended badly and we didn't see or speak to each other for 8 months. We are now together again for 11 months now. The way he told me he was sorry about everything ...

My fiance wont have sex with my anymore, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - my man and I have been together for almost 3 years now. we have a 7 month old daughter as well. he never wants sex anymore! in the last month we've had it like 2 times. I try to initiate by changing up my look or playing but the second vaginal ...

Does it make me a bad person if I have feelings for my ex's brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - ok so i am really not looking for any criticism so please dont do that. i have a friend i have had for about 5 years now and 2 years ago he hooked me up with his older brother. we didnt last havent been together for about 7 months now. he became a ...

How do I know if he really likes me or if he is just playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - So I recently reconnected with an ex boyfriend, I am the one that ended it. Well anyways we have been doing ok so far. We hung this Sunday and went to the same restaurant where we had out first original date at. We had an amazing time; we went to ...

Me and my boyfriend had a fight, I turned to my guy friend and ended up cheating with him! Now I'm confused about my feelings...what should I do?

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27 August 2009 (F) - I am in a 8 year relationship. Something happened over the weekend with one of my best guy friend. I quarreled with my partner and so went out to rant with this guy friend. We were quite intimate (but no kissing nor sex) although we almost had! H...

How do I get my friend to see I'm the one she should be with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Ok I asked a very good friend of mine out, and she said she wanted to but she was afraid of losing me as a friend if something happened between us, and now she is dating another guy. How can I get her to change her mind and realize that I'm the ...

I don't like the fact that he has slept with about 40 women. But I'm falling for him. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - So i have been talking to this guy for three weeks. He tells me he really likes me and wants us to be together but we are taking things slow. We get along great and he has shared things about his childhood and life with me that he has never shared ...

I love someone who lives 1000 miles away. How do I find out for sure how he feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Normally I feel in control of my own love life, but at the moment I seem to be drifting. I love someone who lives 1000 miles away. I think he cares for me too, but I don't know how to find out for sure - any ideas? I miss him so much and although ...

This guy won't stop staring at me. How can I feel better about myself and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - There is this guy at work, in which he and I have been staring back forth at each other for a long time. We have spoken and few times and I feel that we are physically attracted to one another, but we would never get to that point. I wanted to keep ...

Does one person have to control a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - In my relationship my boyfriend controls everything for the most part. We broke up a few times..and he is always the one to break up with me. He always chooses when he wants to see me. Neither he nor I are working right now so he never wants to go ...

How do I deal with my jealousy and not drive him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I don't consider my self to be insecure or have low self esteem but I do have a jealousy problem. In honesty I don't know where it comes from. I'm working on figuring it out..I don't know if I'm just afraid to admit to my self. But I don't feel ...

Please give me some input about how I can permanently leave this loser!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I have asked this question a couple of times. Why do I keep going back to a guy who has been an abuser, physically and verbally and who has cheated on me..Every time, I try to leave him, I end up with him..I've been with him for 4 years off and on ...