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Archived questions from: 30 August, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I want to be with her all the time but I don't want to stifle her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I am recently married (1 year) after a divorce from a 35 year marriage. I am totally in love with this woman so much so that I am anxious when I am without her, even when she is at work(I am retired). I totally trust her, we have an unbeliev...

My boyfriend keeps breaking up with me, and told me he's not in live with me anymore! I know I should let go, but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Im really confused and don't know what to do. I'm 19 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for a year now. Last month he broke up with me because he didnt want to be in a relationship, but we got back together, he has done the same thing 4times ...

Has my cheating ex changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Has my cheating ex changed? I was with my ex Sam for 10 years, we lived together for 7 and had two children together. The problems started right from the beginning when he cheated on me when i was pregnant with my first child. He told me when he ...

We love each other but we're starting to fight everyday...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hi,I am in a relationship with this guy for around two years now,we liked each other from the beginning,we talk about our lives and problems always with each other,we have this beautiful relationship but in the past few months we start having a lot ...

He's beaten me before and is now pushing for sex, should I or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hi umm i need help with my relationship well we are not sexually active.He is really pushing sex though..He has beaten me to the point that Ive had to have stiches..but i still love him..I wonder he says if i love him I will have sex with and take...

This LDR is starting to go downhill...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - So I started dating this girl I've known for some time. Things were great for a while, but we've been doing the long distance thing from the start, and have really only had a handful of weekends together over the course of about a half of a year...

My boyfriend dumped me because I'm too emotional, and couldn't accept my past. How do I move on and get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I've been in a toxic relationship for 3 years, and I don't know what to do. You see in the beginning it was all perfect, it seemed to us (and everyone around us) that we'd been made for each other since we shared the same hobbies, thoughts, ideas, ...

I'm worried that my boyfriend will meet up with his ex girlfriend when he flies over to his home country! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend we been together for 6 months and we are madly in love. we both have different culture and religion. but we both understand each other well. soon his going back to his country to see his family and im worried if we meets up with ...

Kicked out because of a ladies night out!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hello. I'm having a very difficult time in my relationship of 8 yrs. We share a child together and my "boyfriend"/ " husband" kicked me out of the house and took my car back due to me having a ladys night out a week ago and my friend and I ...

How do I get my b/f's attention back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Please someone help. My boyfriend and I, who have been together for seven months, aren't as close as we once were. We became a long distance relationship because we both thought the distance was well worth being with the other. We both are in coll...

I feel like I NEED him and feeling very vulnerable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months now and well. Things are starting to get a bit shakey. We mutually decided that we were going to still date, even though we both are going to different colleges. But the thing about me is - I'...

I want to fix my marriage, but I'm not over the man I had an affair with.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - [MOD NOTE: Three questions into one] Hello, Long and short, i had an affair and can not get over my lover. Trying to work it out with the husband, but can not seem to get my lover out of my head. I have heard this is normal, but i just want to be b...

He is so confusing! Is he afraid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - What is going on with this guy? My ex and I keep coming back to each other but then he pulls away again. Last example: I went away for 3 weeks. He called me when I was away I did not call until I got back. The minute I called him back we got ...

Do you think I was TOO harsh with my ex? Should I apologise?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) - It's me again, with the ex problem. Okay so I bought the Magic of Making up, and the guy who wrote it says that if I want to get back together with my ex I need to not have any contact with him for a month and write him a letter telling him these ...

I kissed another man because I thought it was my fiance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Idont know what to do I admitted to my fiance of two years that I kissed another man but it wasnt intentional. I thought the man was my fiance and I pushed him away after relising it wasnt him. I know it seems hard to believe. I broke my fiance h...

He's with a girl he cheated on me with, but I want to look past it and try again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - me and this guy have been together for seven months he alway use to say i fuss to much when we broke up we were still seeing each other over the summer and i just found out he was dating this girl i use to hear people say he talked to when we were ...

I love her but am no longer IN LOVE with her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I am no longer in love with my common-law wife. She had a one night stand with someone early in our relationship during an agreed 10 day "break", and also slept with her ex a couple of times. (Although, I must admit, she left that ex for...

We had sex and now bumping into him is very awkward!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I recently and very unexpectedly had sex with a guy I had just met from the neighbourhood. I thought he was a half decent person and didn't expect much afterwards. However, I ended up getting much less. Initially it was decided that we would get ...

Why he just joking? Why did he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - O.k.. When i was younger about 15 i was dating this guy. We dated for a while but never had sex.. we broke up when i moved and i didn't see or hear from him again until seven years later. i just recently ran into him again and we have been seeing ...

B/f says he is goingthrough an identity crisis..what dos this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been having a good relationship since our last break up, which was almost 7 months ago. Anyways, I thought everything was going great, he was being very attentive, sweet, and just perfect; but 1 week ago he started to get ...

Why won't my boyfriend be intimate with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hi I need help with a very frustrating relationship problem I have. I've been with this guy for a little over a year now and at first he just seemed absolutly perfect, he was extremely nice, caring, fun, good looking, but now whenever I'm around him ...