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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was in a relationship for close to a year. It was long distance, but we were making plans to move in with each other and my boyfriend had proposed. I accepted his proposal and we were happy. Being 18 and a senior in high school I could not go down to where he lived until I graduated. To keep in touch we used messenger and e-mail. Every night he'd message me and we'd talk for hours usually until 2 or 3 in the morning. But there were times when I was just exhausted. Studying everyday, working six hour shifts, babysitting my siblings, that I ended up falling asleep even when he really needed someone to talk to...In late June he had gotten in touch with this other woman who he seemed to have bonded with well. He broke off the engagement and our relationship to be with her. She left him and he came back...when he came back it felt better that sting and the depression went away. But then she came back and he left....and all those emotions came back and were worse. It's been almost two months since he left and I still can't get over him. Is there anyway to get over my ex? It is especially hard these days because I only see myself with him and I am one who trusts in a gut feeling. My gut has been telling me that she is going to leave him and he'll come back.....I want him back, but I don't want to be the girl he picks because she left him...How can I get over wanting him back so much?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 August 2009):
 What are you a yo-yo? I'd cut that string right fast and in a hurry if I were you. He's treating you like last week's meatloaf.
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