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writes:My husband has never french kiss me. He just have sex with me. I feel very lonely and rejected. He says he will never french kiss any women. He works hard and help me around the house a lot. He keeps our house up good. we have one grown daughter and in good standing financially. he will not french kiss even if I end the marriage. Give me your advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): You want more intimacy. Since he won't give you what you want why don't you see a relationship counselor to get you BOTH talking about your needs. He obviously is not attuned to your emotional needs and he regards sex as only a physical release devoid of the shared intimacy that it should engender.
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reader, Perspicacious  +, writes (10 August 2009):
Some people like to dress up from head to toe in leather, whip each other senseless and then have sex. Of course, some people don't!Some people like to french kiss, and then again some others don't.If it's not your husbands thing then that's all their is to it. For some reason he just doesn't like it. You could ask why, but knowing that probably isn't going to alter anything other than helping you understand the situation.You say you feel lonely and rejected, and by the sounds of it have even threatened to end your marriage. Perhaps you should think about why you feel this way - it would seem odd to do so simply because he won't french kiss, so perhaps there is something deeper making you feel unhappy?
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