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writes:Ok well I liked this one girl since spring and we always had this line we said to each other because in track we were both good at stuff and we'd watch each other and say one up. Well when i was going to finally ask her out she walked up and told me that her and this other guy just started going out (not knowing i was going to ask her) i tryed to congratulate her but i said sweet and walked away and havnt talked to her since sould i tell her how i feel or wait till they break up or move on?
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reader, GoGreen126 +, writes (4 January 2010):
I respectfully disagree with the first poster. I don't think you should tell her until she's single. To tell her while she's in a relationship will put her in an extremely awkward position.
It's like asking her to leave her bf for you before you even know her feelings. That's just bad. I know you probably don't like this, but patience is a virtue.
Get to be close friends with her. Just friends.
If/when they breakup, you can be there to support her, because that'd be what she'd need. If you still like her then, you can tell her a respectful amount of time after the breakup.
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reader, fullvee +, writes (4 January 2010):
Should have told her back then. Just go tell her as soon as you can. Dont waitfor the rebound. Even if you dont get the answer you were hoping for, at least you will know the truth, and the truth is always better than a lie. Good luck.
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