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*ella.mia
writes:ok so im seeing this guy and its long distance..hes coming back to see me soon.. he lives in ireland .. on his facebook the other day it said he was in a relationship i was so mad i didnt speak to him for days and it ruined my new years.. he wasnt online and i could talk to him about it so today he was on and i said first thing off 'so you have a gf' and likes like 'haha no' i didnt say anything he just kept writing me so much stuff because he knew i was furious. i would just write 1 word answers i felt so damn powerful. he knew why i was mad and told me that his friend wanted him to put that up because shes having problems with her stalker ex boyfriend, and him being a nice guy said hed put that up for a lilttle while so this guy would get off her back i guess.. i told him that i didnt believe him. so he started telling me that i can talk to her if i like and she will tell me that they arent dating.. i believe him because to be honest this girl is fat and ugly, and she used to be the singer in his band and he had a fallign out with the band so he left. he told me that hes in love with me and that hed never hurt me .. i told him what he put me through the past week and he felt horrible..anyways he says hes coming to see me soon 2 months or so.. do you his story is full of **** or what? should i tell him i wana tlak to this girl? i told him its okay after we were dont fighting but i mean he offered so hes gota be telling the truth? hes also gonna take it off when he talks to her, cuz he knows its hurting me4 hours ago - 4 days left to answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): Please get real..... you are in Ireland and he's in Canada? Forget him and find someone at least in the same country to pour your energies into. Harsh maybe , but why would you deny yourself so much- youre young get out there!!
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (4 January 2010):
 I remember your first posting about this guy. You say "he's coming back soon to see me." He lives in Ireland and you are in Canada. From your original message I was under the impression you had not even met for the first time, but just communicated via facebook and webcam??
The whole business with this other girl does sound very strange......
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reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (4 January 2010):
 My reaction was exactly the same as "Ask Older Sister!" Did you ever wonder why he hadn't changed his status to "In a relationship" for you?
I think it's all "Fishy!"
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reader, kayxlovesxjamiex  +, writes (4 January 2010):
 was he only single on FB because he is only seeing you and your not in any kind of relationship yet?
i think that you should keep your eyes open and keep your mind clear!
but dont let it ruin your potential relationship, youve told him that its hurting you so why does he have to wait to speak to her to take it off? thats what doesnt make sence!!
if you do decide to talk to her, would it help? she could be lying 4 him? he could have made her lie, it may not be her on the phone? i think you have paranoia issues! keep your ears peeled!
good luck hun ;)
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