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writes:My friend has liked this guy for quite a while now, and I also like him. I've told her that I like him too and we've promised not to get in a huge fight about it. This guy that I like likes me back, but he hasn't asked me out yet. So I don't know what to do if he asks me out... would it be considered mean to my friend to date this guy? Reply to this Question
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reader, lovemylove  +, writes (5 January 2010):
Well, in my position, I wouldn't. But that's simply me.
For one thing, I feel like any boy/man that is being liked by my friend is off limits to me. Although, that is ONLY if I she liked him first. If I liked him first, then it seems more fair if friends backed off. There are plenty of other men and he isn't the only nice/hot/'perfect' guy.
Also, think about this. So maybe you might get this guy and go out with him. But you want to be able to talk about your romance a little with your friends. Well, unless you want to piss off that friend beyond recognition, you probably don't want to talk about him around her or to her. Also, you want to hang out with your boyfriend and your friends. Yet another problem. Not only she will feel awkward, but I'm sure you will too.
However this is just me, as I said before.
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reader, kayxlovesxjamiex  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 no not mean, it may hurt her, but talk to her, say if he likes you and asks you, then your going to go out with him because u like him 2! but then also say, if he likes her, and asks her out then she should go out with him.
be careful though be cause she will react the same way you would if she went out with him, just ask yourself, how would i feel? gd luck :)
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