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writes:Ok.... i'm a little confused. Last night I went on a date with this guy and we went back to his place and made a bonfire in the backyard. We ended up sitting around it for a good 3 hours just talking but nothing physical happened. At the end of the night when I said I wanted to go home, he walked me to my car and gave me a hug goodbye. We kinda paused and he gave me a quick kiss and started to touch me and said "you're so hot" but he immediately backed off once he came into contact with my body and said he couldn't be so forward with me just yet. He was trying to say some other things but seemed like he was getting really flustered so it was all really confusing. What does this mean? Reply to this Question
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reader, daletom +, writes (4 January 2010):
It probably means that he finds you attractive on both a physical and mental level. He may subconsciously realize that he could learn to love you. He possibly sensed that pursuing a physical connection at this time would actually get in the way of developing an emotional connection with you. He's probably afraid to open himself up to you, for fear that you will reject him - or worse, take advantage of him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 January 2010):
It means he fancies you but wants to take things slow. So keep getting to know him, because he didn't go out of his way to use you, so maybe he's a good guy.
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reader, lonelyalone +, writes (4 January 2010):
It means that he does have a physical attraction to you....but he wants to get to know you more on a personal level before anything sexual or physical can happen. it's a matter of time dear. Act kind of shy...don't let him know that anything bothers you. When you show it bothers you....it pushes a man away
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