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writes:Please help even if this is a silly question! I don't know what to think. I've just found out the mine and my boyfriend's song was his and his ex's song! What does that say about him? Should i worry that everyone time we listen to it he is thinking of her?Thank you.
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reader, xAx +, writes (5 January 2010):
xAx is verified as being by the original poster of the question The song is Champagne Supernova by Oasis. To be honest, when i think about it, all the songs we share he shared with his ex.
Thank you for all your comments!! :)
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reader, GoGreen126  +, writes (5 January 2010):
Very similar issue--one of my closest friends just found out that her and her ex's song is now his and his new gf's. She was crushed. She felt like everything he ever said to her was a big scripted lie. She worries that he never loved her and was just chasing tail.
To be the second girl, I guess there are two ways to look at it:
1. You beat out his ex and won his thoughts when that song comes on. You would feel secure in that. Although, I'd warn you against sharing that information with his ex, depending on the terms on which they ended.
2. The love reminds him of relationships in general and he doesn't care if it's personal. You may or may not mind that.
I'd suggest talking to him about it. If he's a good bf, he should be able to discuss something like that honestly and maturely.
Best of luck!
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--GG
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reader, kayxlovesxjamiex +, writes (5 January 2010):
 what is the song?
i know it must hurt, so change the song... put on a different song on all the time, one that the lyrics match the way u feel together! my song with my boyfriend is tracy chapman fast car, because we both love her, he has a fast car and drives like a fool! goodluck chick :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Why don't you tell him it makes you uncomfortable and suggest a new song. BTW what is the song?
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reader, xAx +, writes (4 January 2010):
xAx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, it a song about love. Does that change things?
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reader, Cosy +, writes (4 January 2010):
could depend on the song, but could just be one of those 'this reminds me of people i like' thing... i wouldn't worry, but if you do too much, broach the subject casually.. or change the song! X
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 January 2010):
Maybe he just likes the song. I wouldn't worry about it to be honest.
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