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writes:i need help i am in a long distance relationship with a boy called sean but my mum isn`t happy with the relationship. i love sean more than anything and we want to meet up etc but mum told me that she isn`t happy with me dating him and she is trying to get me to go out places to meet someone new but i don`t want to. Should i listen to my mum and break up with him or should i stick with the boy i love ? From Annabel x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): It is important to follow your own, for you to go through the process yourself. Except now that I have grown older, my Mom was right about nearly everything she ever told me was right...hmmm food for thought
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reader, UptonGirl +, writes (4 January 2010):
UptonGirl is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok thanks maybe its best
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 January 2010):
You say you are in a long distance relationship...
Do you mean this is a boy you know and see fairly often but who is far away? Or a guy you've never met?
Your mum probably has her reasons and I think you need to talk to her calmly about what those are. I think she probably just wants you to be happy and safe.
Why not get him to come round and have dinner with you and your mum next time you meet up?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, supermum +, writes (4 January 2010):
 2 things, that you may not want to hear....1)long distance relationships are hard enough when you are emotionally equiped to deal with them, let alone when you are so young, and 2) your mum is prob right.
Think about this, will it be better to find someone closer to home, who your mum can keep an eye over, who you can cuddle up to on the sofa and watch films with...or do you want someone you will rarely get to see, and whome you dont know what they are doing etc....
I know from experience it is a lot easier to trust those who you can see regularly. And at your age, you want to be able to go out with a bf, have fun and live life...
at the end of the day, the decision is yours to make, but have a chat with your mum and listen to what she says, i completely agree with CaringGuy on that one.
best of luck, and keep us updated.
xoxoxox
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 January 2010):
Ask your mum while she feels the way she does. Maybe she has a good reason. And listen carefully to her, now matter how much you might want to rebel.
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