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writes:hey, This isn't that exciting, but I'm just fishing around for ideas really..I'm 19, and I'm seeing this guy, who is 25. (this bit isn't a big deal. he's quite a young 25, i'm quite an old 19.. ) WE've both had long term relationship things, I think we are at similar stages there. anyway, nothing 'physical' has happened yet, and I'm not worried about it happening, but I figure it will soon enough, he is coming to stay late january, with me in my Uni house, for a few days, Anyway, It's just occured to me, that i-have-no-idea how older people may deal with these circumstances... any ideas how to broach that?Also, Basically I just have no idea what 'we are' of if he would consider us anything- because its a long distance thing ( 3 hours) and I'm living abroad next year. Anyway, so just wondering if there is any 'definition' that comes with older people...Just wondering if anyone has any experience of bringing this sort of conversation up, or whether I should just wait and see? Are there any signs? I'm quite happy as it is, and I want to avoid a 'be my boyfriend' conversation, but would like to know how he feels. ..thanksss!!!
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (7 January 2010):
 LOL at older people wow ouch well it is 2010 us 80s babies are relics sigh and i remember when we used to terrorize the neighboorhood on or big wheels. any ways just relax ok.
You dont need to worry about all this, your guy is 25 practically a senior citazen he will take charge and no what to do, so let him enjoy your youth because guess what your day is dawning to you whipper snapper.
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reader, Jager +, writes (7 January 2010):
if your seeing him and his not seeing anyone else then your boyfriend and girlfriend unless its agreed otherwise hope that clears that bit up. The age gap is very little i wouldnt even bring it up
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