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anonymous
writes:Ok so Im a 14 year old male freshman in high school, and every day at lunch I sit with a group of people. There is this girl that really likes me, but I have no feelings for her. However I have a crush on her best friend (also female) and Im pretty sure she likes me (when we go to parties she is always brushing up against my side or looking at me when she thinks Im not looking etc.) the hard part is that there is another guy who sits with us at lunch (my best friend) who also likes her and Im not sure what to do! If I ask the girl out it will ruin my friendship with at least 5 other people, however if i ask the first girl out I will be miserable for a long time until i dump her (it will never work out) and then she will hate me and it will still ruin my friendship with the 5 other people, as well as ruin any chance i will ever have of going out with the girl I like. Sorry this is so long but i don't know how to make it any shorter. Please respond ASAP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): Simply don't go out with either- it is unlikely missing one girlfriend at 14 years old will cause long term harm unlike losing some of your best friends will
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): i think that it would be better for you not to ask either of them out because you will ruin your friendships
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