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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he warming to me and how can I get to know him better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3273 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a cute guy in some of the fitness classes at the gym, and am starting to like him. He seems shy, so I sent him a fb friend request (2 mutual friends) in November and he accepted. I started trying to interact with him after that, but did not get much of a response from ... (168 words)

I live in LA and she lives in Las Vegas. Can a LDR work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3277 days ago

31 December 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Do long distance relationships work? There's this girl that if I'm honest with myself I've been in love with since I met her two years ago. We've never been out of communication, even when we both had significant others. Those relationships ended badly for both of us. I live in ... (240 words)

How do I assert myself without alienating those I care about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - How do you stand up to somebody you love? I've always had problems with sticking up for myself. I've only ever done it once and it ended my friendship of four years with my ex bestfriend. How do I stand up to somebody like my parents or boyfriend without hurting our rela... (56 words)

My best friend has been ignoring me and I suspect his girlfriend is behind it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been best friends with a guy for the past 6 years. We don't see each other very often anymore because we're in college, but whenever we're home we make a point to meet up, and we visit each others' colleges occasionally. Our friendship has always been 100% platonic, and in ... (396 words)

I'm six months pregnant but not sure who the father is

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so before I start, I'm fully aware that I'm a terrible person for the things that I've done. I didn't come here to be judged, I just need advice. I am 6 1/2 months pregnant. In the past, when my boyfriend and I would break up or get into a really bad fight, I'd get hamm... (299 words)

Under grandma's thumb and with a sex mad boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a problem. I live with my grandma and my mom is out of the picture. Grandma is really strict and she makes it impossible to do practically everything. I mean things like seeing my friends outside of school, talking on the phone, and being on the computer. We still have a ... (721 words)

Do you think I have even the smallest chance with my long distance crush?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - I really suffer from a breakup...Okay, to be honest, it wasn't even a breakup. It was a rejection. My long distance crush is 21 and I’m turning 16 next month. The guy is simply awesome! I can tell you he's worth all my tears cause all my friends like him, too (but none of ... (777 words)

When my boyfriend and I talk on Facebook he wants me to pretend to be another woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have developed this 'thing' where for some reason when we speak to each other on Facebook it's like he's talking to another girl. I know he likes to role play occasionally and that is fine or whatever ... but does him pretending he's talking to another girl ... (99 words)

I think I could come to terms with my boyfriend cheating on me if only he would be honest

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my partner for a year now. Our relationship is perfect all but one thing. I think he cheated on me. Inside I know he did but he keeps denying it. Me and him went out one night to a rave and he had taken drugs, he disappeared and did his own thing. He wa... (525 words)

Husband doesn't please me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I have been married three years and I hate my sex life. Back in the days we used to have sex every day or so and I loved it- though i never orgasmed. Now I just got bored. Told my hubby I need oral to get off and he said it's not his thing. Told him I need stimulation to ... (172 words)

Husband's left for Pakistan. I'm in a terrible dilemma

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has decided to return to Pakistan, I know he does miss his country. He knows I do not really want to go there as I am not a family person and he has a large family. He has basically told me that if I do not go with him then he will get married to someone else. ... (139 words)

I'm scared to touch him. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - After 6 months together, my boyfriend and I have already had sex, but I'm still afraid to touch his penis. He gently pushes me to try doing it, but doesn't force me. He will tell me I can't hurt him and he doesn't expect me to know exactly how to do it. Is there something wrong ... (87 words)

I'm scared to trust him - please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend told me he's been having sex since 6th grade. We've had an off/on relationship because of friends and family but he says he wants to kiss me the next time he sees me. I've never kissed anyone and I'm also afraid he'll go too far. What should I do? I've never been ... (72 words)

Girls, who do I choose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Question for the girls. You have a choice to go out with one of two guys. One is gorgeous and you find him irresistable but for some reason, which we will leave to the side, he only wants passionate foreplay no penetration. The second guy is ok in looks, but nothing special, ... (102 words)

How can I deal with an over sensitive mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Key Information: 22 years old, currently live with my mother and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. My mother is always under the impression that my boyfriend has a personal issue with her. Whenever I have asked him if he dislikes my mother in any way and he always sa... (543 words)

Am I wasting my time with legally separated man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

31 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I am dating a wonderful man who is legally separated but not divorced. He is 10 years older than me, he lives 5 mins from his family home with two teenage daughters and on very good terms with his ex which I'm ok with. My concern is that he will never be... (314 words)

Where can I meet men besides the bar or dating sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My (ex) boyfriend ended our long term relationship back in the summer of 2014, and I've been single since. He was the first actual relationship I've had, and I met him back in college. Well, now I don't really know where to go and meet men and start dating again. I'm quite... (203 words)

What do I say, if anything about our LDR? Why re-connect with these girls? Why have a racist friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my so for a while now and we have a fabulous relationship the majority of the time. However he lives 418 miles away in a big city and I'm stuck here in a small town. There are a few problems that have arisen and the majority of which I think would get better... (697 words)

Is my trainer at my group fitness class flirting with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not sure if a trainer at my group fitness class is flirting with me. He calls me out several times teasing me in front of the class about my technique. One class it was so bad and obvious I guess, that a couple of the guys in the class felt bad for me and told me they ... (169 words)

Should I get checked by doctor for any STI?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Please help me. The other day I was "hooking up" with this guy, but we didn't have sex (I'm a virgin). I was curious from never doing it before so I put his penis in my mouth and gave him a brief blowjob, only for a few seconds. I wasn't even thinking about having a condom for ... (103 words)

He and I have dated for 18 years but he's become less interested. Should I move on to this younger man I've been talking to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

30 December 2015 (M)

age - I am a gay man, an I have been with my bf for 18yrs, in 2010 I was diagnosed with Hiv he was not and then I was admitted to hospital with pneumonia and nearly died my CD4 count was 19 in a healthy human it's over 500 and in the thousands. Throughout all this my bf has stuc... (261 words)

My mother is having an affair with a married man. Worried that she'll be hurt. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, My mum is having an affair with a married man. It started 5 years ago when she was caring for my father who had dementia. He was coming around the house as his job is to teach computers and mum wanted to learn. I knew about it but turned a blind eye as thought b... (278 words)

If I don't change I'm afraid she'll leave me. But I don't want to be pushed around. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3273 days ago

30 December 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 6 months now. When we met, the connection was real and we hit it off almost instantly. The only difference is that she's religious, but I'm not. As far as I've always been concerned it didn't pose too much of a problem with me ... (367 words)

Are we through? I can't tell

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently ended a relationship with a guy who I was with for 14 months. We had hit a hard patch and argued a lot over the last month or so, specifically over his army career which was hindering our relationship. I have been cheated on in the past by an abusive ex boyfr... (383 words)

He's engaged but he seems possessive of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my crush used to work together now we work for diff companies in the same building, on the same floor. I’m 31 female and my crush is 41 male (with a 12 yr old son) He flirts all the time with me, passes by my office daily, touches me in some form. I asked him was he s... (353 words)

Why? And how should I handle the fact that my brother deliberately ignores me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - My brother and I used to be very close but now for some reason he doesn't even speak to me. At school he always pretends he doesn't know me, for example, My Dad sent me a message that I needed to pass onto my brother, so at the end of the day I tried to tell him and he obvio... (302 words)

What could I say in a love letter to girl, without frightening her off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - I need to write a love letter for this girl im going to ask out. Only thing is I dont want it to be one of those over the top corny love letters. I just want to tell her how I feel about her, a little romance is ok but i dont want to scare her off. What should I say and how?... (63 words)

How do I survive this nightmare of bitchiness at work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with the people I work with and I'm thinking of leaving as it's getting to me a bit. I work in a small local business and there are only a few of us. We all have to put rotas in the system every day for gas and plumbing engineers we pass calls to. Well ... (575 words)

Would it be vindictive to tell the wife that her husband is having an affair with my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - This may seem like I'm being vindictive so I'd like to explain a bit of history behind my query... My mother is a toxic woman- my sister and I were mentally and physically abused by her as children leading us both to suffer with anxiety issues. My sister who was very youn... (367 words)

He didn't contact me Christmas day. What can I say to him? Is my reaction reasonable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone I have been dating a wonderful man for 3 months. We were friends for 4 months prior to that. He is kind, attentive, loving, considerate, reliable, funny, generous, always keeps his promises, and generally a good man. We get on really well, our feelings for... (405 words)

This girl has left me feeling confused. Can you help me ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl at work and it became apparent after a couple of weeks that we liked eachother. She had literally just split with her ex of four years. After expressing to each other that we liked each other we kissed and things were good. We went out with people from work... (285 words)

How can I ever accept and forgive what she did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

30 December 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I realize I am being a complete hypocrite and I hate it but I can't change how I feel. BACKGROUND: I grew up in a Bible-based church where soul-winning, youth conferences, missionary work and Bible memorization were expected. Most children were homeschooled or in an ap... (1221 words)

Is it jealousy the issue or is something else the reason my fiance cannot deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) age 36-40 - I met a guy and I seemed to like him and we decided to meet up and we had sex the first night. After that he acted like he doesn't know me. I contacted him a few times after that and he said I was expecting to be his wife and pushed him. And I decided to keep it cool and dec... (260 words)

Was listening to a man moaning on youtube cheating on my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I was away from my husband, who doesn,t like phone sex, and I decided to play with myself unsuccesfully, so i listened to some random moaning on you tube that helped. I feel bad and feel like I cheated on him. Am I wrong to have listened to the other man moaning?... (52 words)

I don't want to be alone on New Year's Eve. Any suggestions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - So...this may sound pathetic...because I'm going to be alone this New Year's Eve. My friends are either going to spend New Year's Eve with their boyfriend or their husband. And the only one single friend prefers to stay at home. I feel so lonely.... Just last year, my friends ... (86 words)

Will it look like I am chasing my ex if I message him about his plans for New Year's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age - I have been out on a few dates with my ex boyfriend over the last 6 months. He had made me feel alive again after not seeing hm for about 15 yrs. we don't talk very often or text which does wind me up. I feel we are both playing games with each other. We are both in our 50's ... (251 words)

Is this man almost twice my age trying to get close to me? Ask me to move in with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've just met a guy older than me.. (50 years old) and he owns his own business and we have been chatting for 3 weeks at most. He invited me out out 2 times already. The first time I was cautious and questioned him a lot (after all he is new to me) . He then changed ... (245 words)

Broke up with boyfriend of 5 years, but was it the right decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for a little over 5 years. We broke up the 26th. A little rundown about what happened. We really did have an amazing relationship. We had serious talks about our future, kids, getting a house together, etc. It was my first serious relationship, hi... (584 words)

What can I do to make my LDR boyfriend trust me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

29 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I m in a relationship with this guy and it had been 2 years. We love each other More then our lives. This is a long distance relationship. He is really possessive. I don't use any social networking because of him and I m fine with it. I don't talk to any boy. In 1st year I hurt ... (152 words)

Heartbroken over silent boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

29 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, but recently I've been pushing to see him more. I know i was wrong for being so bossy. He now seems to be backing off. I've hardly seen him and he doesn't put x at the end of texts. He also doesn't reply like he used to, to my messages... (183 words)

Does what appear to be scratch marks automatically mean your partner is cheating on you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

29 December 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Does what appear to be small scratch marks bring you to the automatic conclusion your partner is cheating on you? It's nothing obvious and he has rashes and a skin condition. The lines don't seem to last long either and they are on the back just behind the under arm. Both ... (93 words)

I feel like she's put me on reserve while she dates someone else but I don't want to ruin things either. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

29 December 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I'll keep this brief. I met a girl at the weekend in a bar and we chatted for a while and it was all great. I added her on Facebook and today I plucked up the courage to ask her to meet for a drink. Her friend and her both told me she was single on the night out, yet she ... (147 words)

My boyfriend breaks up then texts me, wants to have sex and then blows me off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me almost a month ago because he believed a relationship was not his best interest and I deserved better but still wanted us to be friends. It was a very emotional break up for the both of us. However, according to his friends he told ... (292 words)

My boyfriend acting strange and evasive while in his hometown, is it his ex? or his parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Been with bf for five months and he went back home for the holidays for a few days. I didn't expect constant contact and didn't get it either. But after Xmas, two days of no contact at all. I caved and texted him, he called me back. Apparently his family is having issues ... (378 words)

What could we do on dates that won't make me anxious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We live in the same campus accommodation at our university and hang out in each other's rooms every day. I get on really well with all his friends and we have a nice relaxed time together. However he's started saying he would ... (237 words)

I feel like she got me to fall in love with her but now she's backing out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 December 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl at work and it became apparent after a couple of weeks that we liked eachother. She had literally just split with her ex of four years. After expressing to eachother that we liked eachother we kissed and things were good. We went out with people from work but had ... (274 words)

She pushes me away but expects me to stay when shes hurting and says she needs me. What can I do to be more compassionate and understanding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a dilemma. My girlfriend is an incredible woman....considerate, generous, supportive, affectionate, honest, loyal, hardworking, compassionate, goal orient, intelligent, sensitive. Her amazing side is amazing. Then there is her other traits. If for whatever reason I ... (801 words)

I trust him but I don't trust his really attractive female friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

29 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm in a relationship and although we've not been together for very long i love him,but i feel myself getting jealous of other girls already. It all started when he told me about his "good friend", that's like a sister to him. At the time i didn't think much of it but then... (83 words)

I ended things but now I'm totally in love with him and I think he's moving on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

29 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I really need your help. I’ll start by telling you the situation. You’re in for a long one so sit back. About a year and a half ago I met this guy; I’ll call him Josh, at my tennis club. I didn’t know him very well at all, but straight away I quite liked him. He ho... (496 words)

I just want him to love and care about me but he never shows any emotion

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll try and explain this as simple as I can :) Right, am 29 years of age and when I was a little girl, I had a best friend who is a boy and we where the best of friends since the age of 6 up until we where 13, we had sleep overs, we where best friends in school..he was the ... (1217 words)