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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Where can I meet men besides the bar or dating sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My (ex) boyfriend ended our long term relationship back in the summer of 2014, and I've been single since. He was the first actual relationship I've had, and I met him back in college. Well, now I don't really know where to go and meet men and start dating again. I'm quite... (203 words)

What do I say, if anything about our LDR? Why re-connect with these girls? Why have a racist friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my so for a while now and we have a fabulous relationship the majority of the time. However he lives 418 miles away in a big city and I'm stuck here in a small town. There are a few problems that have arisen and the majority of which I think would get better... (697 words)

Is my trainer at my group fitness class flirting with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not sure if a trainer at my group fitness class is flirting with me. He calls me out several times teasing me in front of the class about my technique. One class it was so bad and obvious I guess, that a couple of the guys in the class felt bad for me and told me they ... (169 words)

Should I get checked by doctor for any STI?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Please help me. The other day I was "hooking up" with this guy, but we didn't have sex (I'm a virgin). I was curious from never doing it before so I put his penis in my mouth and gave him a brief blowjob, only for a few seconds. I wasn't even thinking about having a condom for ... (103 words)

He and I have dated for 18 years but he's become less interested. Should I move on to this younger man I've been talking to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

30 December 2015 (M)

age - I am a gay man, an I have been with my bf for 18yrs, in 2010 I was diagnosed with Hiv he was not and then I was admitted to hospital with pneumonia and nearly died my CD4 count was 19 in a healthy human it's over 500 and in the thousands. Throughout all this my bf has stuc... (261 words)

My mother is having an affair with a married man. Worried that she'll be hurt. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, My mum is having an affair with a married man. It started 5 years ago when she was caring for my father who had dementia. He was coming around the house as his job is to teach computers and mum wanted to learn. I knew about it but turned a blind eye as thought b... (278 words)

If I don't change I'm afraid she'll leave me. But I don't want to be pushed around. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

30 December 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 6 months now. When we met, the connection was real and we hit it off almost instantly. The only difference is that she's religious, but I'm not. As far as I've always been concerned it didn't pose too much of a problem with me ... (367 words)

Are we through? I can't tell

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently ended a relationship with a guy who I was with for 14 months. We had hit a hard patch and argued a lot over the last month or so, specifically over his army career which was hindering our relationship. I have been cheated on in the past by an abusive ex boyfr... (383 words)

He's engaged but he seems possessive of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my crush used to work together now we work for diff companies in the same building, on the same floor. I’m 31 female and my crush is 41 male (with a 12 yr old son) He flirts all the time with me, passes by my office daily, touches me in some form. I asked him was he s... (353 words)

Why? And how should I handle the fact that my brother deliberately ignores me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - My brother and I used to be very close but now for some reason he doesn't even speak to me. At school he always pretends he doesn't know me, for example, My Dad sent me a message that I needed to pass onto my brother, so at the end of the day I tried to tell him and he obvio... (302 words)

What could I say in a love letter to girl, without frightening her off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - I need to write a love letter for this girl im going to ask out. Only thing is I dont want it to be one of those over the top corny love letters. I just want to tell her how I feel about her, a little romance is ok but i dont want to scare her off. What should I say and how?... (63 words)

How do I survive this nightmare of bitchiness at work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with the people I work with and I'm thinking of leaving as it's getting to me a bit. I work in a small local business and there are only a few of us. We all have to put rotas in the system every day for gas and plumbing engineers we pass calls to. Well ... (575 words)

Would it be vindictive to tell the wife that her husband is having an affair with my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - This may seem like I'm being vindictive so I'd like to explain a bit of history behind my query... My mother is a toxic woman- my sister and I were mentally and physically abused by her as children leading us both to suffer with anxiety issues. My sister who was very youn... (367 words)

He didn't contact me Christmas day. What can I say to him? Is my reaction reasonable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone I have been dating a wonderful man for 3 months. We were friends for 4 months prior to that. He is kind, attentive, loving, considerate, reliable, funny, generous, always keeps his promises, and generally a good man. We get on really well, our feelings for... (405 words)

This girl has left me feeling confused. Can you help me ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl at work and it became apparent after a couple of weeks that we liked eachother. She had literally just split with her ex of four years. After expressing to each other that we liked each other we kissed and things were good. We went out with people from work... (285 words)

How can I ever accept and forgive what she did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I realize I am being a complete hypocrite and I hate it but I can't change how I feel. BACKGROUND: I grew up in a Bible-based church where soul-winning, youth conferences, missionary work and Bible memorization were expected. Most children were homeschooled or in an ap... (1221 words)

Is it jealousy the issue or is something else the reason my fiance cannot deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) age 36-40 - I met a guy and I seemed to like him and we decided to meet up and we had sex the first night. After that he acted like he doesn't know me. I contacted him a few times after that and he said I was expecting to be his wife and pushed him. And I decided to keep it cool and dec... (260 words)

Was listening to a man moaning on youtube cheating on my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I was away from my husband, who doesn,t like phone sex, and I decided to play with myself unsuccesfully, so i listened to some random moaning on you tube that helped. I feel bad and feel like I cheated on him. Am I wrong to have listened to the other man moaning?... (52 words)

I don't want to be alone on New Year's Eve. Any suggestions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - So...this may sound pathetic...because I'm going to be alone this New Year's Eve. My friends are either going to spend New Year's Eve with their boyfriend or their husband. And the only one single friend prefers to stay at home. I feel so lonely.... Just last year, my friends ... (86 words)

Will it look like I am chasing my ex if I message him about his plans for New Year's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age - I have been out on a few dates with my ex boyfriend over the last 6 months. He had made me feel alive again after not seeing hm for about 15 yrs. we don't talk very often or text which does wind me up. I feel we are both playing games with each other. We are both in our 50's ... (251 words)

Is this man almost twice my age trying to get close to me? Ask me to move in with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've just met a guy older than me.. (50 years old) and he owns his own business and we have been chatting for 3 weeks at most. He invited me out out 2 times already. The first time I was cautious and questioned him a lot (after all he is new to me) . He then changed ... (245 words)

Broke up with boyfriend of 5 years, but was it the right decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for a little over 5 years. We broke up the 26th. A little rundown about what happened. We really did have an amazing relationship. We had serious talks about our future, kids, getting a house together, etc. It was my first serious relationship, hi... (584 words)