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Archived questions from: 3 December, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Due to work we only see one another on weekends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

3 December 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years and I really love her. However for the last year I have only seen her at weekends due to work. We live an hour and a half from each other and driving to her's (and vice versa) daily is not an option due to traffic. Problem is I feel g... (252 words)

How do I get this married man out of my head?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have posted a few times about this situation. I have fallen for a married man. I don't want to feel a thing for him. Let me be clear I have never allowed us to cross the line. I have tried to avoid him, but down to his work this is impossible. Started off with him staring ... (294 words)

I think my boyfriend is addicted to porn

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for four years now and everything in our relationship is good except for our sex life. In the begin, he had a hard time keeping an erection when we would have sex and it really hurt me and made me question his attraction towards ... (326 words)

Since masturbation is the only sexual gratification I've had, what can I do to make it less shameful?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3272 days ago

3 December 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 24 and a kissless virgin. I am ashamed of the fact that I have no idea what it is like to be in an intimate relationship and that the only sexual gratification I can get is self given. I feel like by not having dated in high school and college I missed out on a learning ... (224 words)

How can I determine if he really wants what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated a guy on and off last year but we remained friends. The basic reason why we broke up was 1. Lack of communication and 2. I wasn't sure that he was over his ex. Recently, he said that he misses me. I said the same, and so we started hanging out more often. We have b... (171 words)

I want a child but my boyfriend doesn't. Should I tell him I'm going off contraception?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my partner for 3 years . I have had the implant in my arm for nearly 6 years . It's only meant to last 3 years ? Is there a specific time limit for this contraception? Me and my partner don't use any other form of protection. He knows I want to start trying f... (111 words)

How can I make Christmas a success given my family's opinions about my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I grew up in a very close family, I have a huge extended family and we are all very close. They are nice and loving but at the same time close minded and now I found out even racist. I have been in a relationship for 6 months , my parents have met him and they like him . He is ... (221 words)

Husband took out loans behind my back. How can I ever trust him again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Found out my other half took out loans behind my back last year without telling me. Said we needed the money but he never told me. Thinks its ok that he kept it from me and wonders why i'm shocked at what he done. He talks about trust but how can i when he done this? He m... (102 words)

He broke a cup I gave him, but has chosen to not replace it. Should I let this upset me so much?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3273 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I bought my hubby a cup with the words, love you more then shoes on it. He accidently broke it and said he would get another but he still hasnt. it hurts me that he hasnt replaced it and it shows he doesnt care. I've reminded him to get it and said it upset me he hasnt got an... (113 words)

My former friend: Should I text him, wait for him to contact me, or just let it slide away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear AgonyAunt,i am 16 and in grade 11 now. Today i saw my past crush/friend/classmate but i'm not sure that's really him. should i text him and find out or should i wait for him or should i just let that slide away? I unfriended him once 3 years ago (but i add him back ... (109 words)

My boyfriend expects me to pay for him!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused. My current boyfriend with whom I'm in a LDR with for over a year seems to be the kind of guy who is used to his girlfriend buying him things and paying for things/meals. This is the first boyfriend (I've had 4 BFs) or guy I know that accepts this treatment from ... (322 words)

Should I be mad at my boyfriend for not telling me when his flight leaves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very upset with my boyfriend right now. He is on his way back from visiting family in Florida. His plane was supposed to be leaving today. I know this because he told me that his return date is December 2nd. But I do not know the departure time. My boyfriend has ke... (566 words)

I told my ex he needs to reflect on himself and be honest and he says there is nothing wrong with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I broke up with a guy on Sunday after 8 months. It's the usual story, he was overly keen to begin with, texting, calling and constantly knocking on my door (we live in separate flats in the same house) After 7 months we slept together and as soon as that happened he just... (218 words)

My ex was very passionate after not seeing each other for 15 years. Does this mean there is a future for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3273 days ago

3 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I met up with my first love a few months ago and have seen each other twice in nearly 6 months. the second time was so intense and we became intimate. When a man is so passionate with an ex girlfriend after nearly 15 years of not seeing her, is it a sign that we may have a ... (105 words)