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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My in-laws pop in every day and I'm finding it irritating! Opinions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have to get some other opinions on this.. Ok, so the bigger part of me says I'm being petty, selfish and ungrateful even getting annoyed about this.. but, still, I find it really irritating! So since my partner and I bought a house, my inlaws pop in.. usually every... (614 words)

I still believe he is "the one". Any idea what's up in this LDR?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I am trying to keep it short but I m very glad for your guys feedback. My boyfriend, i mean my ex and i were having an long distance relationship. we tried to see each other every 2 weeks. 2 weeks ago we had our first intense argue. we sorted things out and decided ... (291 words)

What could be her reasoning? 8pm and she decided to go out to see a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together a year. An we are inseparable. We live together. She's a stay at home wife kind of thing. My nan passed away a week ago n I've been grieving and at 1st she was there for me but now she's not as caring. Today I went doctors and foun... (275 words)

Am I right to be upset about this skinny shaming?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, I have a gay male friend who to me seems obsessed with my weight/body. I m female, a size 8 weigh 57kgs and i m 169cm. According to my doctor i m in excellent health and the right weight etc for my BMI (Body Mass Index). I ve never had an eating disorder or strug... (313 words)

Will this be a repeat of last time? Am I the easy option after his last split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I'm hoping you can help. I split with my ex in 2008 after 6 years together. We didn't live together or anything and had no kids between us...just children then from previous relationships. We got together quite soon after my marriage ended as we were already ... (344 words)

Ex' is threatening suicide. How do I stop her bothering me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I came on here not too many days ago stating my ex girlfriend of five years had me feeling unsettled. I stated we have been broken up for at least six months. She constantly contacted me and I responded cordially. Perhaps a friendship could come of it. She ended up on two ... (290 words)

Refractory period last for too long, anybody has the same experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3264 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Thi is not a new thing. My husband has always had a long refractory period. The minimum is about 24h. We met in mid-20's and now are in our forties. We're both in good shape, eat well, exercise, still love each other and are very much attracted to each other. We discussed this ... (177 words)

Can anyone tell me if my equipment is too small?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

14 December 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I've recently become a little insecure about the dimensions of my penis. Due to various circumstances, I've never been in a committed relationship. Recently however, I had a fling with a female acquaintance who shared with me her very honest assessment of my penis. Although she ... (124 words)

He's open but I don't like what I hear

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My hubby keeps it all the way 100 with me - very open and tells me everything. I feel lucky but now I'm beginning to feel like I'm not comfortable with his openness as it is not making me feel good. How can a man be this open with his spouse and yet I have a problem? It's n... (349 words)

I shared personal information. Now it'sall over the office

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - The guy that I was engaged to 1997 gave me herpes.I was still young in my twenties. This change my whole life. He didn't tell me he had it. I was so hurt I cried. At some point I excepted this of course I couldn't change it anyway. Ten years later I started dating someone I th... (238 words)

He wants more sex but I'm exhausted

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all - I need advice. How often do happy couples have sex? I am in an on again off again relationship with a guy for 3 years. We just got back together in late October - early Nov. Within the last 3 weeks, he brought up that he wants more sex and that I used to be more sex... (370 words)

How can I get experience when everything seems against me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

14 December 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl and I've never been on a date. I'm don't have a particularly attractive face, I'm overweight and bald, and I'm an awkward quiet nerd. I was recently talking a girl that I was interested in pursuing a relationship with. We had a c... (251 words)

Does my date need to come out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy I'm dating got intimate ! I gave him a couple hickies at the drive thru and we kind of had sex. Well when he turned on the light he saw he had two hickies on his face, and he was upset. I said we can go to the store and I'll help you pick your colour so you don't have to ... (212 words)

If nothing is changing on his part, then what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. When he's not at work, he's either playing video games, watching sports, or with friends. This has become a problem in our relationship because we barely spend any quality time together. I've been tolerating this for some time now, ... (197 words)

Is my Bf telling me lies? And if he is telling me lies, then what is really going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a problem that I need help with in deducing whether or not I should stay in this or not.. .me and my boyfriend has been in a relationship for a year now.. I'm finding out about small lies he is telling me ..I have been through his phone an found this stuff but everytim... (163 words)

Is the first year of marriage this tough? I feel like I am failing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 7 mths into my marriage and feel like I'm failing. My expectations for the kind of marriage i want is gone and i need your help seasoned couples. Something is wrong and i need to fix it. First i need to know if im tripping about what i consider inappropriate behavior in ... (538 words)

What can I do or say the next time I start seeing someone without upsetting her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'd like some advice. I have a friend that doesn't seem to want me to be with anybody, she is 20 and I'll be 20 in a month. We've been friends from being 14years old. She has always been like this and I have never known why. She's always been the type of friend to copy y... (371 words)

What are the dangers or issues associated with not wearing underwear? Assuming there may be any dangers or issues.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

14 December 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello everyone, I have an odd question. I recently have decided I want to stop wearing boxers. I don't enjoy wearing clothing to begin with, and I don't even see a reason as to wear underwear if I'm covered. I'm in high school, and I want to know the dangers of not weari... (121 words)

What would be the reason I cannot orgasm with my girlfriend, when previously I could orgasm with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3265 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been with my girlfriend (I'm a lesbian) and I haven't had an orgasm while I've been with her but I had them with my ex. I miss having orgasms what should I do? ... (34 words)

He is secretive about his phone and he becomes defensive when I ask. But could he be flirting online?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

14 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Pls help! I've been with my fiancé for 3 and a half years. We have a 2 year old daughter together I found his profile on a dating site and it said last active 5 months ago and one of his pictures I took of him myself ! I confronted him about it and he said he was... (301 words)