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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I get attached to girls way too quickly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

21 December 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a problem in that I get attached to girls way too quickly. What I mean by that is that I get tunnel vision and only look at this girl for a potential relationship. Every new girl that I meet, I compare them to the girl I really like and rationalize why ... (251 words)

My stepmother is cheating on my father and abusing him, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. This might be a long story so I have tried to condense it. I feel distraught and powerless. My dad and step mum have been together around 5 years and things have gotten out of control. This woman has been married previously 4 times and my dad is the 5th. We all welcomed... (818 words)

He partied with his ex while I was pregnant, and I can't seem to move past this betrayal

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So when me and my fiance got together, we mutually agreed that maintaining contact with exes was a dealbreaker. We were very happy, and I fell pregnant with our son, who is now three. However, when I was 12 weeks pregnant, I went on a holiday with my mom, and during this time, ... (218 words)

How can someone change so much so fast? I think it's his mother and his friends influencing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - He has changed so much in the past year, I do not even recognize him. When we met we were both in college but he was getting ready to graduate. He was a huge nerd always playing Magic the Gathering, and he was very sweet. He had like a 1930's classy vibe to him, he was a ge... (960 words)

Would this be a good opener to ask a nice girl going past me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

21 December 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - Just a simple question. If I see a nice girl going past and I just say "excuse me, are you busy" or "are you in a hurry?". Wouldn't that be the best opener to judge if she's interested? Her response would show straight away if she has any interest and would also give her the ... (65 words)

He can't take the time to shop for me and my kids, but he will for his kid and for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - As most men do, my bf dislike shopping for anything. Especially xmas shopping.. So I've done all of it this year... Including a few little gifts for myself.. Then today I get a text saying that he totally forgot he needs to buy a gift for is ex from his kid.. I'm not sure how ... (84 words)

How do I start a conversation without sounding too awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My crush lives in Finland, and I live in America. We talk pretty often but I get the feeling that he doesn't like talking to me. He didn't answer my last text. How do I start a conversation without sounding too awkward? ... (43 words)

Should I leave her a note saying she has no morals?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. A few weeks ago a girl hit my car and damaged my wing mirror on a country road. She was speeding way to quick and didn't slow down. I've reported it to the police but they say cause its a country road that it would be fifty fifty. I'm replacing the wing mirror myself as I ... (98 words)

He is in denial. How can I get my alcoholic ex to see sense over his heavy sustained alcohol consumption?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My finance loves to drink. he wont go one week without drinking and it can carry on for days. It causing problems in all areas of his life such as our relationship, jobs and his health. he admitted he has a problem before and went to an AA meeting. I think he only done it to ... (159 words)

How can I help my bestfriend? I think her Bf is behaving like text book beginnings of a domestic abuser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm extremely worried about my best friend and her new "boyfriend." This may get complicated without names so for confusion sake's, my best friend will be A. Her ex will be D and her current boyfriend will be L. I have been best friends with her for 15 years and she ha... (654 words)

He doesn't seem bothered. Yet my friend's lifetime dream has been shattered. How can I help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been keeping touch with an old friend of mine from school who left early because he found an opportunity to pursue an artistic direction, something he had always wanted to do. He's not the type who talks much, and I've often misinterpreted what he means when he says thi... (607 words)

Can differences in libido be addressed? How? Will these differences affect out relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

21 December 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - how important do you think it is to be sexually compatible? i am a very sexual person and my girlfriend seems to occupy the space at the other end of the spectrum my attempts to address this divide almost always leads to fights. iv told her that i believe she is looking for a... (97 words)

Based on his actions does my crush feel the same as I about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3281 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - My crush spent the night at my house as a sleep over before we went to bed, I noticed that he went into my room and kissed my cheek softly and whispered goodnight. Does this mean he likes me or he only thinks of me as a friend?... (49 words)

A volatile relationship at it's end. Can you offer advice on how I go forward ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3288 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I have been in a bad relationship since I was 16 years old. Pregnant at 19 and now 11 years later. 3 kids. A house. I have myself a good job. I have always supported him financially. He hasnt work since our oldest now 8 was one year old. He decided he would take care of... (722 words)

How can I demonstrate to my Bf that I still want to be there for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3288 days ago

21 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, just a quick post to gather a few opinions on what to do here, so thank you in advance of you decide to reply. So, I'll try keeping it short, so it might sound a bit blunt, but I don't want to babble on. I was diagnosed with depression not too long ago, but I've been su... (224 words)