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writes:My boyfriend and I have developed this 'thing' where for some reason when we speak to each other on Facebook it's like he's talking to another girl. I know he likes to role play occasionally and that is fine or whatever ... but does him pretending he's talking to another girl give me a reason to believe he could be doing it for real? I don't mind doing it for fun but there is a little bit of doubt in me regarding whether or not he actually wan't to have sex with other girls ...
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reader, Denizen +, writes (3 January 2016):
 In that case I think your actual relationship needs grounding. It's a tough one because I can see that what you have developed as far a role play goes may be an important factor in keeping the interest between you alight.
However you have to look at where your love for each other is taking you. Do you have plans to be closer geographically? How do you both see this working out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your response. My partner and myself are long distance and so the majority of our conversation is done over social media/ Skype. Therefore so is some of our 'sex life' if you call it that.
To update you, he says he wouldn't want anybody else and actually proposed to me yesterday so I suppose my doubts and feeling like he's being strange were because he was planning that ...
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reader, Denizen +, writes (2 January 2016):
This all sounds a bit weird to me. I mean, role play is one thing, but role play on FaceBook is, depending on how you look at it, very funny or very funny peculiar. I guess the easiest thing is to ask him if he would like to have sex outside your relationship. Is he itching to take a walk on the wild side, or are you all he needs?
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