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writes:I have been out on a few dates with my ex boyfriend over the last 6 months. He had made me feel alive again after not seeing hm for about 15 yrs. we don't talk very often or text which does wind me up. I feel we are both playing games with each other. We are both in our 50's although neither of us look or feel it. I have a grown up family. He has no kids. Neither of us has married.Our last date was initiated by me. He has not communicated with me for almost 2 wks. No Xmas wishes.??I do not really want to contact him first but i am getting really distressed at the no contact. I want to spend new year with him. I know he still has feelings for me. We are both mutual with our feelings. I m not giving away too much. I know how he behaves in relating to contact. I don't think he realised how it makes me feel.Will I appear to be chasing him? I do not have any friends as such so He has just started a new job so I am planning on messaging him to find out how it's going and hint if he's doing anything for new year.I do not have my friends as such so will be rather lonely. I don't want to appear as if I'm chasing him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2015): Sounds very one sided.
Rather alone and wait for the right one than having to push with this EX
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2015): The way you both are being about this I bet he's sat there wondering why you didn't wish him a merry Christmas too. I bet he's feeling the same as you.Will it be that difficult just to go ahead and text him first? If you don't want to give too much away you've already left it two weeks without contacting him so one text now won't make you look pushy or clingy.In my experience Christmas is about spending time with your family and going to visit them but then New Year all the family visits and being busy with that is out the way. People like feeling wanted and having a text asking them how they are or asking if they'd like to go out. If you want to start communicating more start doing that. It's pointless playing games, as you put it, as you are not getting any satisfaction from doing it and you are winding up not speaking or seeing the person you want to.Just send him a text asking how his Christmas was and go from there.
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