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writes:Question for the girls. You have a choice to go out with one of two guys. One is gorgeous and you find him irresistable but for some reason, which we will leave to the side, he only wants passionate foreplay no penetration. The second guy is ok in looks, but nothing special, although you find him attractive enough to go out with(and he wants sex). Who would you choose?Of course if you are like me, who enjoys foreplay over sex, it's no question that the former would always win me. However, what about for someone who prefers sex over foreplay?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (1 January 2016):
 Neither :) But I have never been into casual sex. It's.. just not for me.
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reader, Slippers +, writes (31 December 2015):
I must be greedy as I'd want both haha ..
Foreplay is good and dandy .. but I also like the feeling of being with fully with a man so for me it would need to be someone who could do both.
Take care sweetie x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2015): Op again here. I wasn't asking about myself, I did explain my preference(I left the headline to the ed).
I also wasn't asking about a permanent relationship where I would want to have sex,children etc. It's just that I prefer foreplay and I was wondering if there were two guys wanting to have a fling, a gorgeous with a personality to match with only foreplay or a regular guy who is ok with you and wants sex, which would you choose? Interested in hearing what others would do
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2015): Oh everybody loves foreplay but after a while you need something a bit more. Does the first guy prefer this because he has erectile problems?
My last relationship ended up being all about foreplay and as much as I liked that I still started to feel like I wanted a bit more and having sex after foreplay is great!
I know you find the first more attractive but I've gotten into relationships with people I didn't think were drop dead gorgeous but as I got to know them and love them they became more and more attractive. I don't know there would always be something a bit lacking with the first guy.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (31 December 2015):
 I would choose the second.
The second can / want to perform both foreplay and intercourse and would be able to alternate either one upon request.
The first is limited in his sexual offer , and even if you " prefer " foreplay, that does not mean, right ?, that you would /should just stick to foreplay day in day out. You may need to vary every now and then.
Unless you actually mean that you hate the very idea of intercourse and you have taken it off forever from your sexual menu. In which case, the foreplay guy is right for you. But only in this case.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2015): If you like sex over foreplay then you should choose the later guy. But if you'd rather foreplay you'd probably shooter the earlier one. It all depends on you.
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reader, lerx3 +, writes (31 December 2015):
You can have penetrative sex and feel less than foreplay if it's with the wrong person so for me I'd go for the person who took my breath away more. In this case ... the one I deem most attractive. Sex, while good, isn't the be all and end all. What I will say is I am assuming there is a perfectly reasonable explanation for his not wanting to penetrate and you'll have to respect that. Respecting that means not entering into a relationship if you're going to resent the fact he can't or won't penetrate. Also keep in mind girls are lucky with the number of 'sexual help' we can buy in stores. Maybe use them together ?
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reader, Slippers +, writes (31 December 2015):
Hey sweetieIf you only wanted passionate foreplay you wouldn't be writing this post. You want the first guy but something holding you back. The thought of never being intimate with him?As a medical person if he has some medical condition that prohibits him from getting intimate and you really really care for him etc then I would say it's a no brainer. If, however he is physically able and just not wanting too be intimate with you then if I were you I would be wondering " why". So, since you feel the first guy has all the attributes you want then let the second guy know you like him buy just as a " friend".Take care sweetie .
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2015): Pick the guy you actually find attractive. No brainer.
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