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*nluckyinlove87
writes:I met a girl at work and it became apparent after a couple of weeks that we liked eachother. She had literally just split with her ex of four years. After expressing to each other that we liked each other we kissed and things were good. We went out with people from work but had to keep everything to ourselves. She later confessed that she was falling in love with me and wanted to take it to the next level. Ie sleep together. But she wanted it to be special. So a few days go by and everything is ok. We're talking on the phone and seeing eachother and I can feel myself falling for her. She's an attractive girl and gets alot of attention from lads. Now she says she wants to be single for at least a year and has sort of took a step back. We now hardly see eachother as I have left that workplace and she says that when we see eachother it cannot be like it used to be like but she says she wants me in her life one hundred percent an she meant what she said but she needs to be single for a bit to go and do things her exes wouldn't let her do. I really don't know what's going on I'm so confused I feel like this girl has got me to fall in love with her now she's pushed me back a bit. We still speak all the time an I am sure she still feels the same she is just suppressing it. I really don't know what I should do. Help!!!!
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reader, Songwr1ter +, writes (30 December 2015):
Give her some time ...
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reader, Slippers +, writes (30 December 2015):
I'm a mental health nurse so this is my two penny's worth .She jumped from a long relationship that constraint her in some way or another and she was feeling probably lots of emotions including wanting to be wanted .. you filled that need .. that doesn't mean she has lied about liking you .. but she on this emotional roller coaster .. It's unreasonable for her to say she likes you and be single for a year .. and with all that entails .So I would if I were you, I would put this as strictly friends and I wouldn't put all your eggs in one basket .. and keep your options open .. I know you like her heaps but your only going to have your heart crushed by listening to her .. I was out flirting with this guy or kissing this other guy .. rein whatever feelings you have in.Give her space .. tell her okay .. you like her but your not willing to wait a year, you know she needs space so your giving it to her.. If she wants to make a go of it .. she should contact you in a few weeks if not then you won't be waiting around ..Take care and chin up .. I know it's hard but there is plenty of girls out there looking for a nice guy ..
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