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writes:My boyfriend told me he's been having sex since 6th grade. We've had an off/on relationship because of friends and family but he says he wants to kiss me the next time he sees me. I've never kissed anyone and I'm also afraid he'll go too far. What should I do? I've never been the type to stand up to people and my parents don't know I'm dating him. Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2016): Well, if he wants to kiss you then i guess its alright as long as youre comfortable and okay with it. But if you are afraid that he will go too far, you can stop him but it will turn awkward.. instead you should tell him earlier and make him understand you. Let him know that youre not ready to go that far that quickly. Make sure he does not pressure you. If he does, you might wanna walk away from him.
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reader, Songwr1ter  +, writes (31 December 2015):
I know you're scared to stand up to him, but you need to talk to him. It's obvious, that you are not ready for this, and if he has any respect for you, whatsoever, he will respect your choice. But don't be pressured into doing something you don't want to. Don't let him make all the decisions in this relationship. This is a relationship, with two people making the decisions, so include yourself.
You are too young for sex, anyway, make sure you bring that up with him. If he is pressuring you, make sure to tell your parents/guardian, or another trusted adult.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2015): NEVER let anyone pressure you into something you don't want to do. 6th grade?! So he's been having sex since he was 11 or 12? That's way too young to be having sex! If he tries to pressure you, just say no! You are in charge of your own body, and you decide what you do with it, no one else. Never be scared to say no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2015): You need to clear things up with him that you are not ready for sex .He might mean that he wants to kiss you down there and then he will want to go one step further.He sounds like a bit of a jack the lad.I think you should tell him you are not interested and drop him before you become another notch on the bed post.Find someone willing to be sweet and nice, not pushy and demanding.Just tell him your dad would go mad on him if he tried anything but tell him this by text and then end it so he can get his experience elsewhere.
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reader, lerx3 +, writes (31 December 2015):
I think you just have to set see boundaries. Explain to him that you are aware he's more experienced and may be inclined to go further but you're just not ready yet.If he is even half a decent human being he'll be understanding and respect your wishes.
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