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writes:Okayso I've just met a guy older than me.. (50 years old) and he owns his own business and we have been chatting for 3 weeks at most. He invited me out out 2 times already. The first time I was cautious and questioned him a lot (after all he is new to me) . He then changed his mind and said that he could never "win" with me because am too suspicious about everything and that I was inexperienced (which I am). The second time he wanted to meet me in the city , I said yes but I haven't scheduled a date yet and recently , he wanted to come see me on Christmas day.I think he is cool to talk to and all but I almost feel like he is trying to start something. So we talked last night about me finding a job and about how horrible it was to be living with my mom and her treating me like trash and a slave and he said twice that I needed to get my own home. Wondering if its a double meaning cause he has a really big house and I dont know if he might mean to come live with him (must be all in my head). He also asked if we are friends. Why would he ask that? Also, is he trying to get close or wants to be with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks all. @Anon Yes he does own his own business and I have seen and held couple convos in the street with him a few times without actually knowing him. His story checks out. @Myall, I like holding deep and meaningful convos with him but I am not in love. @So_Very_Confused thanks for your concerns. I will be careful! , @Denizen thanks for your advice.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 December 2015):
 You seem very naive for your age.
Yes he's trying to start something.
I don't think saying "you need to get out of your house" translates to "move in with me" at this juncture.
he asked if you are friends as he's trying to figure out where he stands with you.
IF you want to know what HE wants you need to ASK HIM.
tread carefully older men can easily take advantage of young naive girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2015): Do you know for real that he owns his own business or is that something he just told you, is all communication online? I would worry about his motive if both of these answers are yes
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reader, Denizen +, writes (30 December 2015):
 It sounds like he does want to see if there could be something between you. There are people who are young at 50 and those who act middle-aged as teenagers.
Take some time and get to know him better. See if he has the qualities you are looking for in a man.
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reader, Myau  +, writes (30 December 2015):
 Of course he is trying to start something.
Soooooooo are you interested in him romantically?
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