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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

(More questions from October, 2013)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I try to start something with a crush that works at my school?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 17 and in year 13 at school, I've had a crush on a member of staff that works at the school, however he's not my teacher, he just works in the school as a social helper, he's about 22 I think and we do talk quite a lot. I'm not sure on what to do next as Im leaving for uni ... (84 words)

Losing attachement to boyfriemd but I love him... what next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really do love and care for my boyfriend. However, I'm beginning to question his... Dedication. He is quite lazy when it comes to building our relationship. I'm always wanting to hang out and talk (he lives about 2 hrs away)... He'd rather surf the net, play video games, or ... (200 words)

Is it bad that I would date someone with HIV if I really cared about them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad that I would date someone with HIV if I really cared about them? Am I stupid for this? I am HIV-. Thanks in advance.... (27 words)

Do men like to do the chasing ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm hoping for some input, male and female answers welcome! I've basically realised that I have a really bad complex about being rejected when it comes to blokes! I've been hurt in the past, whereby a male friend who I was at uni with strung me along for years, despite leading ... (277 words)

Is it wrong to want to be someone's friend in the hopes it will lead to something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 October 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I met someone really cool on Saturday. I belong to a sci fi enthusiasts group on a activities website. We went to see Gravity on Saturday. It was only my second meetup with them and I had noticed one of the women there. We ended up sitting next to each other in the theatre and ... (336 words)

Should I go to homecoming without a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been single for a long time and now it's my senior year at homecoming should I go even if I don't have a date ?... (26 words)

How to give a married man the brush off without causing offence?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - To keep it brief, a married man who works in the same field as me has been flirting and inappropriate since an event a few months ago. I have no intention of doing anything untoward and keep steering things back to a professorial level in our communications. Today he told ... (373 words)

Dazed and confused ...girlfriend versus ex wife and children.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

7 October 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I am not sure what to do... My girlfriend have been fighting a lot lately. I have an ex-wife and 2 children with her, we communicate on a semi-regular basis (my ex wife) about the kids, their grades, behavior or events. Sometime we have small talk while I wait for the kids to ... (524 words)

Why do I attract insecure guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - In the dating pool since 8 months after ending a 5 year relationship (we broke up cause we were going different directions in life)... Prior to that I had very little experience with guys, so dating is kind of new to me... I'm a shy and quiet person (even to the point that s... (443 words)

I snooped on my partner. Is this woman my rival or am I paranoid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - First off, I did something really stupid, I decided to snoop on my partner of 8 years when he accidentally left his iphone @ home. I had a premonition and i just did it. I found some suspicious looking replies to CL ads and then I started reading his text messages, specifically ... (284 words)

My FWB guy has dropped off the radar. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a fwb for the past 2 months. We've gotten together about 3 times and the sex was great, he also said he enjoyed it very much. I even began liking this guy a lot, possibly falling in love. Now all of a sudden, he wont respond to my calls or texts. Its been a week now and i ... (114 words)

I've become the maid and babysitter in my house because of the way my wife now acts. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

7 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 35 and my wife is 30 we have been married a year but together almost 6 years. we have sex maybe 1-2 times ever other month. before that about 1 year ago it was 1-3 times amonth, we have a son together and her 8 yr old daughter whom believes im her real father, she goes out ... (224 words)

Did I blow it by playing it cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I finally met this guy my friends had been suggesting I meet, they mentioned he would be coming with us on a camping trip. He arrives late as he was working that day, just in time for dinner and drinks. I didn't really have a proper chance/the guts to talk to him until after we ... (264 words)

I don't understand why the first time in 4 years he has not wanted to have sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I am almost 7 months pregnant and have a 2 year old with my partners of 4 years. I have noticed a change in my partner the last 3-4 week's. His sex drive has been non-existent. He dose work and his hours have changed he starts and hour earlier and finishes a hour earlier. ... (451 words)

We can't enjoy sex together because we both want to have the same role!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, As I am now starting a new thing with this handsome blond guy with beautiful deep blue eyes, I am trying to be careful not to get hurt like before. He is really kind and he already showing he embraced the idea of being with me. As nothing in this world is complete... (535 words)

Can our relationship get past the cheating? How can we work through it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Please dont lecture me. I know I've done wrong. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years, Im 24, he's 26. We've had a rocky time in the beginning but have been good for the last few years. Until I drunkenly slept with someone behind his back,. Since I did it, I've been dist... (403 words)

Why do guys want the lights on, or my shirt off, during sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi peoples! Not to prescribe to stereotypes or anything, but it seems like every guy I've been with always says "I want to see you" when I say I want to keep my shirt on during sex or want the lights turned off. Anyone else notice this or wonder why? ... (54 words)

Does my boyfriend really want me, or a relationship with anyone good looking enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out this weekend that my boyfriend used a pick up artist to help with getting girls who were a 10 instead of a 7 as he puts it. I have also seen a message on his phone where he sent a message to his best mate with a picture of me and asked if he thought I was good ... (87 words)

Should I bring up it up he was searching for strip clubs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for 4 months. About 5 months ago, we nearly broke up because he wanted to move to another city. He went over there for a couple of weeks before deciding he didn't want to live without me, so he moved back and things have been ... (375 words)

I really love this guy and want to spend the rest of my life with him but he left me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, Please help me out.I am so hurt. Me and my guy friend were dating for 6 months. I fell for him.He was seriously unto me and happy with me and all stuffs happened between us.He let a female friend between us and woud never stop texting her.i used to fight with him f... (293 words)

Why he's closing me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 32 and there is this guy who use to live in my neighborhood who is younger then I am. He's 21 yrs old and developed an interest in me saying that age doesn't matter blah blah blah. I started to like him but always told him that because our age difference and our maturity ... (439 words)

He said he was depressed and broke up with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 4 years and a half has been depressed for the past few months (i should say ex bf now since he just broke up with me a few hours ago). Sorry if this is too long in advance. When we first got together 4 and half years ago he warned me that he was bi-polar, but th... (330 words)

Family still talks to ex boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex boyfriend and now he has new girlfriend. At first we were trying to work it out or so I thought. Well now my ex boyfriend comes around my house and hangs out with my brother in law. My brother in law and my sister live behind my house. So they are always ... (515 words)

How to get this girl to see me less like a friend and more like potential boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, thanks in advanced for taking some time to try and help me. I met this girl about a month and a half ago, i had her on facebook a while before im not sure why but i did. I'm a League of Legends player, and I saw that she had changed her cover picture to a LoL related... (499 words)

Will I regret taking my daughter's dad off childsupport even though she is grown?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I am caught up with two men that one took care of his child and then the next one disowned his children by me.Long story short I want your opinion on this the first man I have two children by him he never paid a dime? For the second guy I have one child by him he ... (160 words)

My g/f played strip poker till everyone was naked but says nothing happened?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend went away for the weekend to visit some friends. She told me that she had some drinks and ended up playing strip poker with 2 other guys and a girl. She told me nothing happened. just played until everyone was fully naked. What should I be thinking here????... (50 words)

Should I be single going into college?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My question is pretty straight forward (In my opinion anyway). I have been dating someone for a little over a year now, he's my longest relationship and I his. I love him with all my heart. We are Seniors in high school this year and college has been the only thing everyone has ... (171 words)

I love him but I'm losing attachment to him. He breaks promises. So what next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

Met online. Should I be feeling uncertain because he doesn't necessarily show that he's interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be a little long, so please stick with me. I recently joined a dating site. I've never done online dating, but I'm really shy with guys in person, so my sister suggested I try it. Among all the creeps, I actually met a semi decent guy. We talked for about a week ... (395 words)