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Archived questions from: 31 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could it be smegma or semen? Or is it evidence of cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a serious question if a man has a white powdery ring around his foreskin head does that mean he cheated and had sex? is that smegma? He is uncircumsized ....when he pulled back the skin I saw white clumpy stuff under the skin looks like female discharge its not ... (111 words)

He needs time to think about it? What can I do? I am left wondering and waiting if he's planning to break up with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am hoping that my boyfriend and i eventually make-up. At the moment he is really angry with me because of something i should have not said to him in the heat of an argument. I have sent him 3 apologies, via texting. After i asked him if he wanted to end the relation... (157 words)

An Angry Boyfriend? What to do with him when he is like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like lately things have escalated way out of control. So the other day he and I decided to see each other for a couple of hours before he starts work. While I was waiting for him to arrive, we spoke on the phone and got into a small disagreement, since whenever I t... (801 words)

I called my girlfriend fat. I was joking but she's upset. How do I make it up to her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

31 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have got a problem which needs your help. I met my girlfriend in Singapore two years ago and living with her in her small apartment there provided to her by school where she teaches. I do odd job there and grateful to her for that. She is an American and right now I'm in ... (142 words)

How do I break up with him? I love him with all of my heart

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Well I've been in a relationship with a lovely guy for the last 4 years and I used to think he was the one. In fact I still do in some ways. However the last year or so has been very rocky because I've started to want more from the relationship and he doesn't. ... (503 words)

Should I have sex with my manager if he want to?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and I work part-time as a server. We have this kind of newish manager, he's 31, that started about 5-7 months ago. When he first started working there, I HATED him. I mean seriously disliked the guy. He was arrogant, rude, cocky an demanded respect automatically. What ... (594 words)

Does my boyfriend wish things had worked out with him and his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would my boyfriend (31m) look at his exes pictures on facebook all the time if he says he hates her because of the way she treated him. Is it really because he dislikes her or because he still has feelings for her - wishes things had worked out? I know he wouldn't want to ... (144 words)

I want to know about him but don't want it to look like I'm hitting on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4065 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! I recently met a guy friend and it seems that we get on well and have bonded over a few subjects. However, there are a few minor problems, I think I like him but I can't be sure because we don't see each other very often, and when we do speak its only for a couple of ... (134 words)

I'm confused and I know it will hurt my g/f to find out I'm leading a double life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys I don't know where to start and I'm so confused but I guess I try from the beginning . 6 years ago I met my best friend and my girlfriend and my first love but we are both closet cases but most people have assumed that we are an item. The last two years I've felt so ... (260 words)

Boyfriend gets easily irritated at me regarding how I work and I don't know what to do? I am walking on egg shells anymore

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - We live together. He is divorced with a couple adult children. We talk about getting married. We share the same office. I have a home based business. I have a separate work space from the office in the home. He tells me to be myself around him. "But" when I am, he gets ir... (462 words)

Should I feel this guilty about not being a virgin anymore? I'm 23 and I've slept with one person!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, You all have given me great advice in the past, and I'm hoping you can help me again. I've been struggling with feelings of guilt over not being a virgin anymore. I'm 23 and I slept with my last (and only) boyfriend. In the beginning (I was 21) I thoug... (248 words)

What do I do with a dog a friend has never picked up or looked after?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I have found myself in a very difficult situation. I quite like dogs but I'm by no means an experienced dog owner and certainly wouldn't have chosen one as a forever pet but in the summer (June) I heard that a friend-of-a-friend was going through an awful divorce an... (977 words)

Should I talk about this when I meet up with an old friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I talk about this when I meet up with an old friend? I'm meeting a friend this weekend, who I haven't seen for a few years. I want to talk about everything that has been going on recently, such as when I went on holiday for the weekend to visit my dad, my job, my hobbi... (183 words)

Not all fathers are good fathers, but what do you do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't a question as such, more to see what other people's opinion on this is. I am all for a dad to have his rights and responsibilities towards his children. But what do people think a mother should do when there was domestic abuse in the relationship? Or the fa... (143 words)

He's a great guy, except for his sex drive

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am frustrated beyond belief and the worst part is, I will NEVER EVER cheat. My boyfriend (who is, admittedly, a very good guy) and I have been together almost 3.5 years. No engagement ring yet and he always claims it's money which I get because I'm in the same boat. We always ... (470 words)

My friend is self-centered, but I live with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in my last year in college and living with 3 other students. One is a great roommate, the other is a friend from high school and her friend. The only one I have any trouble with is my friend from high school. In high school, we were very close. She was the life of the part... (739 words)

How do I tell my parents about this much older guy in prison?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a man that's 24 years older than me seems to really feel the same about me he is wanting to become a pastor really soon he knows slot about the Bible and he is devoted to God he is 53 I'm 29 he is currently in prison and has only four more months to go out ... (111 words)

After 5 years he tells me he never loved me and was just using me for sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age - after 5yrs the guy i was seeing told me he had meet someone else. Now discover that he never loved me and he only kept seeing me for sex. I feel so used and cheap. Im finding it hard to deal with as i loved this guy. how do i move on? jo ... (57 words)

My boyfriend's adult son is driving me to despair!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is in his 45 and we have been very hapoy for 12 months. We had plans to rent our places and to buy a place together. Then his 20 year son moved back in with him. Everything has changed. My 24 year old son has moved out and is very happy and working hard and his ... (208 words)

I've become extremely needy and emotional, since I'm used to have her around my finger.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

31 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I recently dumped my girlfriend of 4 years. I did it because I haven't lived my life and I was feeling that I wanted to meet other people. My girlfriend was wonderful but we wasn't on the same level, she was very responsible and grown up while I couldn't appreci... (305 words)

No experience with players. How do you know if a guy is one?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice on dating. So, I haven't gone on dates for over 12 years. My ex-fiance and I were together 11 years and we did not even dated we were collage buddies. We have been separated for over a year now. I recently signed up for online dating and after e-mailing back ... (364 words)

The last convo we had he said I was acting like a psycho and wants me to leave him alone. How do I fix all this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for aboyt 2 months. He has his own business and works crazy hours and gets stressed about it. In the beginning we spent a lot of time together. We went out and did enjoyable things together. Then he started a really huge project and has been slammed ... (215 words)

I want to tell him to stop contacting me because I feel like he is playing with my heart, does he miss me or is he just saying hi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

31 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy I met broke up with me and said he doesn't know what he wants. he said he is lost. I asked to help him and he said no. I decided to accept it and now after almost two week no contact he texted me out of the blue and said "hope everything good with you" I am confuse about ... (152 words)