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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He keeps flaking out on plans

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, There is a guy on my university degree who for the past year has been showing interest. We have never spoke in person (just hey, you alright?) We have different friendship groups and were both abit shy around each other. We speak on facebook and text, but its alway... (342 words)

Am I allowed to have these thoughts towards a friend? The "what if" might have happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so there's this friend of mine, lets call him *dave, who i get on with famously. but friday night he had far too much to drink and ended up making a pass at me. now thankfully he didn't force me or anything but he didn't exactly stop pressing the matter either. i ended ... (230 words)

5 years of my life stolen by a lying cheat

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My whole life has just fallen apart. I have been with my long term boyfriend for 5 years but things have only got really serious in the last 18 months, we have discussed marrige and he has been concidering moving in with me ...I have never met his close family only because he ... (285 words)

I'm tired of being labeled "The Nice Guy"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

28 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Now this isnt a post of how the jerks get the guys and nice guys dont ... ha lets be fair the main thing that women like in these is the confidence and assertieness that they have .. but what winds me up is Im never going to one of them guys , you know the one that takes ... (352 words)

I'm becoming less attracted to my girlfriend though I love her. What's the solution?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

28 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 23 years old guy, and I've been dating my girlfriend for a few months now. I've been alone for 5 years before I met her, and anything before her wasn't very serious, so I may as well say this is my first real relationship. She is 5 years older than me, and it was her ... (311 words)

I think he's interested but hasn't asked me out. Should I suggest something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4070 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I really need a mans advice here. I'm 18 and I'm interested in a man of 25 and I think he's interested in me too despite the slight age gap as we have very similar interests and are in similar worlds of gigging and music etc.. He's shown signs of liking me - making the ... (284 words)

Should I walk away from my jealous and possessive male friend? I have a boyfriend and haven't dared tell the friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, basically I am a girl and I have this guy friend, and he told me he liked me in that way, but I don't so I let him down gently and we continued to be friends. Then my current bf came on the scene, and if truth be told I still haven't told my guy friend I even meet my bf le... (184 words)

I hit it off with my builder but now he's blowing cold. What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - A builder came to do some work on my house. We hit it off straight away. We had so much in common. We exchanged numbers and have chatted everyday since. Saturday he sent me a text asking what I was up to. I said I was just home bored I invited him over to watch a film. It was ... (202 words)

I don't want to let go of my ex ... what do his recent actions mean?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I fell for a guy just over a year ago and we got together, we were together for a couple of months and everyday he would message me 24/7 and I would message him back, we'd talk until all hours of the morning until one of us fell asleep. It was continuous. All of his messages... (274 words)

When Will the Rose Colored Glasses Come Off?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - About 2 weeks ago I posted a question about my son cutting his friends and family out of his life because of a new gf. The verdict was just to give it time and he would come around. Now, here we are, with something that is even more perplexing in his world of new found love. ... (393 words)

Should I start a relationship with someone that is leaving in a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and i have been hanging out for a month and a half, and we have been enjoying our time together, we go out all the time, we are affectionate towards each other, in other words we act like were together. I really want to be with him, because i already feel like were ... (135 words)

He asked me for a date but its been 5 days since I've heard from him. Is it rude to break the date?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Over email, a guy asked me to go out with him on day xyz. I replied, said yes that day sounds good. It has been five days and I haven't gotten his reply confirming the date and time with me. I know he can be busy or had an emergency but reply to email is part of his job requi... (166 words)

My child's father risks jail because of his behavior towards me and I feel guilty!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help.....i feel guilty for putting my child father in jail. His jealousy causes him to do crazy things to me. At first I thought his jealous behavior was cut until it ended with property being destroyed. Now we have a pending court case and I feel guilty about it. But I ... (173 words)

Should I be worried about my girlfriend's behavior with her phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I love my girlfriend to bits..but I have noticed from day 1 she is a very private person but she has opened up to me in the months that we got to know each other better..but one thing that irks me sometimes is she carry's her phone with her everywhere,even if I touch it she ... (134 words)

My uncontrollable vanity and low self-esteem are ruining my life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

28 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am obsessed with photos and not in a good way. I spend many hours of my life constantly worrying about documenting what I do so that I can have a good view of my life in the future. Subsequently I scrutinize them to the point of obsession and constantly think very badly of... (729 words)

I followed my husband to his country, but a temporary stay now seems to be permanent

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - 1 year after dating a foreign man, I followed him back to his home country. For 6 months I learned about his culture and language before returning to the US to finish my degree. We were long distance for 1 year, after which we decided we couldn't live without one another ... (893 words)

I can't stop blaming myself for causing him breaking up with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf of 8 months dumped me almost 3 months ago, because "we are comfortable but it doesn't mean it's going anywhere." He's been "thinking abt it for a few weeks" and "I am getting obsessed with the relationship." He's my first bf and I really loved him. However, somet... (442 words)

Would this behavior indicate a possible cheater

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, just a question in general. I have noticed when people watching, that there was a man sitting with his wife and she with her body language indicated that she was insecure, she was begging for his attention and affection, he barely took any notice of her, only a ... (145 words)

FWB wants to meet up but hes dating someone. Is it moral?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my fwb just asked me to meet up even though I thought it was over because he apparently had a girlfriend, he then explained that she wasn't his girlfriend and it wouldn't be cheating because they haven't defined the relationship. is it moral to sleep with him?... (47 words)

Past love haunts me to this day... and now he's engaged...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a strange relationship for a few years... I was living with someone else but trying to get out of the abusive relationship and started seeing someone else... I fell pretty hard until he cheated then things pretty much went from hard core romance to more so FWB type ... (249 words)

We have sex but he never cums

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My long distance boyfriend and I have recently started having sex, he has been to see me two weekends in the past month and a bit and both times we have engaged in sexual activities. He can 'get it up' and maintain and erection over me however he doesn't cum? He lets me orgasm ... (110 words)

I'm afraid that my life will pass me by before I find my life's purpose and I'm getting anxious

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, this isn't exactly a relationship but I'm really in need of help and could use some constructive advice. My life is not what it should be and there needs to be change, because it really sucks. I'm in a career I just defaulted into, I would like to have a different care... (754 words)

I want to go slow -- are guys not willing to wait anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to be in an very emotionally unhealthy relationship of five years which was my first one i was 19- and it lasted until i was 24. I finally left the abusive relationship and have taken three years to really recover and get my self to start looking and date. I want to give ... (501 words)

Does being cheated on make you more likely to cheat?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

28 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - What do you think? My girlfriend's last boyfriend cheated on her. Would that make her more likely? Since her experience with her ex, she is very jealous with me. That is understandable. I wonder if that makes it more likely for her to cheat. She has lied to me in the past... (105 words)

New relationship -- when do I tell her about my fetish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - hi i have fetish for satin/silk and only get aroused when a female is wearing satin preferably nightdresses , i am considering a new relationship with a female of similar age to me but how do i go about telling her of my liking of satin/silk , i do not want to put her off me ... (72 words)

LD Girlfriend with male bestfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship (on the game SecondLife), and my girlfriend has a male best friend on SecondLife. They have known eachother for 3 years now or so. She is the type that only has guys friends and admits it. I've only known her for about 17 days but she ... (267 words)

Is my LDR worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

28 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my current boyfriend for a little over two years now, and we have been long distance since 2 weeks after we began dating. We saw each other regularly, but recently he moved further for school and were closer to 5 hours away from eachother without much hope of ... (341 words)