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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to discuss family asset's without upsetting anyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So my husband and I are not really having a problem so much as just needing advice, words of wisdom, etc. I was having lunch with my husband and his brother's girlfriend who is 4 months pregnant with his brother's child (obviously). My husband went to the restroom and the... (625 words)

If a girl is just not interested why make excuses for putting things off

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

13 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl I like. We went out once. Ever since then whenever I causally ask her out she keeps making excuses. Some I can believe like she says "Friday is her family day." And other excuses like that. The one she uses a lot though is that she is hanging out with a friend ... (145 words)

I am confused after meeting this guy on holiday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't really know where to start if I'm honest, I met a guy on my holiday. He is from Wales and I'm from England, so we are 3 and a bit hours away on a train from one another. He has been a self confessed man whore in his past after sleeping with 18 girls. When we met he was ... (501 words)

I think I might have caught him in a lie ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This will probably sound ridiculous but I need opinions! My partner and I have been happy together for 3 years. Last night he gave me a lift to a friends house for some drinks and as we were in the car I noticed his car ticked over to 10,000 miles exactly (it's displayed in the ... (296 words)

Why is my ex making such awkward conversation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend almost four months ago (I was the dumper). Since then he's gone through all the motions of telling me to never contact him again, at least twice. Each time he's been back contacting me within two weeks. In this time, I've also left the country ... (202 words)

Why do men like to check out porn and naked celebrities?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Recently for some reason I have become a little insecure :( I am an attractive young woman...slim so little reason to you could say but like alot of women seem to be uncomfortable with my fiance looking at stuff on the internet. Its few and far between and just... (237 words)

How can I recover from this love-sickness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago. Since then, my life has started to be absolutely nonsense, I spent my days watching the time passing by, and fell into a deep depression. I have started university almost a month ago, still I don't think I am over him. I mean, ... (194 words)

My partner is reluctant to start a family, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently posted about moving countries. I've moved countries and been with my partner for over a year and a half. He seems reluctant to start a family but i really want too! we've been arguing and mostly he's been silent. What should I do? I've given him a year and a half ... (72 words)

I feel like there's competition and I'll never be good enough for my boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have a mutual friend who is really slim, pretty and fun. I've known her all my life and my boyfriend met her through high school. Last week I was in an awful mood and all I wanted was for him to come and see me so I text him and he said he was out so I sai... (233 words)

Things seem weird and off with my boyfriend. Am I over thinking things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend's been really weird and off with me for the past week. I see him every weekend and sometimes a few days during the week when we have time. We usually text everyday for most of the day, (though we're not one of those lovey dovey couples) however this week we've ... (228 words)

I cant stop missing him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) I was in an ldr with a wonderful guy for nearly a year, and things were pretty great. But we were definitely switching off. Well, he more so than me. He went MIA for about a week and i was really worried to find out he was in hospital. Of course this was a pretty d... (357 words)

Can you sue someone for giving you an STD?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you sue someone for giving you an STD? My ex boyfriend has contacted me, to say that he recently ejaculated blood and that if he has an STD he will be suing me. I haven't had a check-up for a few months, but last time I went to the doctors (he came with me) I was ... (130 words)

Should I go to the doctor to prove I am NOT mentally ill?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted on here before about my situation. Abusive ex, left our son in wet clothes, we had a row about it, then he said he never wanted anymore contact, now he has changed his mind, and I have said no, as I want supervised visits, so now he wants to take me to court (s... (182 words)

What's with him?Does he hate me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I met him in a summer camp but we go to the same school.He's the type who usually flirts with a lot of girls(even physically touching) so it's hard to know when he really likes you or is just friendly.Despite this everyone in the camp thought he liked me and teased him about ... (671 words)

am still in contact with a guy I dated when I was 16, I still like him what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4055 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am still in contact with a guy I dated when I was 16, we broke up cos he lived in America and I live in NZ, anyway, recently we have started emailing each other constantly throughout the day and a few months ago he moved to Australia, which is slightly better,... (109 words)

I'm confused as to whether or not he likes me as more than a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So confused. A co-worker who transferred from one of our global and I have become very good friends over the past year. His wife was supposed to transfer as well to the us but they ultimately separated and are in the process of divorcing. A month after he filed for divorc... (182 words)

Am I being insecure or should her lifestyle / attitude be a legitimate concern?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

13 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I (3 months together) got into a fight last week because she told me that if she goes out with her friends they would have a "contest" to see who could get the most numbers at a bar or club. I found this disrespectful and odd so I let her know that this is a ... (370 words)

Why did he treat me so badly when all I ever did was love him? He treats his new girlfriend much better than he did me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old.. I have only been with one man and that was from the age of 13... However over the years the man I was with for seven years didn't treat me very well... Put me down, took a lot of my money, cheated, broken my finger etc but he was all I ever knew and loved so ... (217 words)

Should I continue to be her friend? Or distance myself? She doesn't want a relationship now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

13 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, I have lots of questions. Okay, so I have told a girl I like her and want to be be more than just friends. However, she told me she treat me like a 'brother', a person she can talk to. She said she don't want and not wanting to have a relationship and... (278 words)

LDR going sour..how do I keep her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4057 days ago

13 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am hopelessly,helplessly,head over heels in love with a beautiful gorgeous doctor! We have been dating for 6 months now the last couple of months have been LDR but I make sure I see her every 2 weeks(I have been trying)..she's a nice and kind hearted woman but she's short te... (227 words)

We broke up but I miss his kids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me :( I hate the way I feel. I finished with my ex a few months ago because he took me for granted too much. (Money , never spending time with him, being left on my own all the time) with him and he had kids from a previous relationship who I loved to bits. ... (141 words)

LDR talking only 1 hour a week on the phone isn't enough for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Things were great and I've fallen deeply in love with him. We met on holiday and decided to have a long distance relationship where we would see each other every 1-2 weeks for about a week. Two weeks ago he started universit... (275 words)

How would a relationship go with this Zodiac pairing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so for those good with Zodiac signs, how would a relationship go between this pairing? Me (female): Leo Sun, Capricorn Moon, Gemini rising Him: Libra Sun, Scorpio Moon, Sagittarius (or Aquarius, I haven't double checked.)rising I'm curious, because the combin... (94 words)

Advice for a 7 year age gap relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

13 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Just a question: How do you feel about a relationship between a man who is 25, and a young woman who is 18? I am the 18 year old, by the way. I don't find anything awkward about it so far. We've been dating for two months, HE doesn't find anything wrong with it either. I fin... (377 words)